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| 00:03:30 | >> I'm going home sober.
|
| 00:03:32 | And my home has got to be safe
for me too.
|
| 00:03:35 | >> You think that--
>> like maybe you should be
sober too.
|
| 00:03:39 | >> You think you're all better
..
|
| 00:03:41 | >> No, I don't think I'm all
better, lukas, but I've made a
commitment to working on it.
|
| 00:03:46 | >> This isn't about me now.
|
| 00:03:50 | Are you crying, baby?
|
| 00:03:53 | >> [sniffles]
Yeah, because it's really
frustrating to be in the
POSITION I'M IN AND [sniffles]
Be working hard toward
something.
|
| 00:04:00 | And, you know what?
|
| 00:04:01 | If you're not willing to, um, be
supportive, then that's fine.
|
| 00:04:07 | That's your deal, lukas.
|
| 00:04:08 | >> I'm just a little--
a little teed off, you know?
|
| 00:04:12 | Let me call you back.
|
| 00:04:14 | >> Okay.
|
| 00:04:16 | [busy signal]
>> How are you?
|
| 00:04:26 | >> My husband decided that it's,
like, my issues and that he only
drinks with me, and that I've
been, like, brainwashed away
from him.
|
| 00:04:38 | >> He said that?
|
| 00:04:40 | Oh, no.
|
| 00:04:41 | So he thinks you're different.
|
| 00:04:43 | Well, 'cause you are a little
different.
|
| 00:04:44 | >> Yeah.
|
| 00:04:45 | >> That's the point.
|
| 00:04:46 | >> But he's like, "well, like,
she signed up for this,
I didn't," you know?
|
| 00:04:49 | >> Yeah.
|
| 00:04:50 | Which is true.
|
| 00:04:52 | >> He's right.
|
| 00:04:53 | >> He is right.
|
| 00:04:54 | >> But the reality is he is an
integral party of my life.
|
| 00:04:58 | ..be
well, I need to address those
issues.
|
| 00:05:05 | >> Right, so it's better to
change together, then.
|
| 00:05:07 | 'Cause if you don't, then it's
kind of detrimental to the
relationship.
|
| 00:05:11 | >> The end of it.
|
| 00:05:12 | You know what I mean?
|
| 00:05:13 | >> Yeah.
|
| 00:05:16 | ..
|
| 00:05:18 | >> Kendra has admitted now that
she's an alcoholic, and realized
that in order to deal with it,
she can't be around alcohol.
|
| 00:05:24 | This is gonna require some
sacrifice on her husband lukas's
part, and it's understandably
taken him a little by surprise.
|
| 00:05:31 | I asked him to come to the prc
for a session with kendra in the
hope that we can convince him
how crucial his support is to
her recovery.
|
| 00:05:40 | >> Hello.
|
| 00:05:41 | >> Hello.
|
| 00:05:42 | >> What's the matter?
|
| 00:05:43 | >> Nothin'.
|
| 00:05:44 | >> You all right?
|
| 00:05:48 | >> [sniffles]
>> You look like you're on the
verge of tears.
|
| 00:05:54 | ..
|
| 00:05:56 | ..
|
| 00:05:57 | [sniffles]
He basically just told me that
these are all my problems and i
..
|
| 00:06:04 | [sniffles]
>> You know, when one person
starts to get healthier,
everybody else reacts.
|
| 00:06:11 | When you start getting
healthier, you're not the sick
one anymore, so it forces
everybody else to look at
themself.
|
| 00:06:16 | >> Yeah.
|
| 00:06:17 | >> Which, as you know, is
really, really challenging,
really, really hard to do.
|
| 00:06:20 | >> Mm-hmm.
|
| 00:06:21 | >> So, usually, there's a
reaction at first, you know?
|
| 00:06:24 | And I kind of have a feeling
that's what this is.
|
| 00:06:27 | >> Give him a chance, okay?
|
| 00:06:28 | >> Yeah.
|
| 00:06:29 | >> All right, let's bring him
in.
|
| 00:06:32 | Come have a seat.
|
| 00:06:33 | >> How are you guys?
|
| 00:06:34 | >> We're good. how are you?
|
| 00:06:34 | >> Hi.
|
| 00:06:36 | >> Hello.
|
| 00:06:38 | ..where should we start
this?
|
| 00:06:46 | Kendra had expressed some
concerns that perhaps you
weren't aware of where she was
at or that you were feeling
uncomfortable about the kinds of
things she was starting to say
now as a result of the changes
she's going through in
treatment.
|
| 00:06:59 | Can you speak to that a little
bit?
|
| 00:07:00 | >> Uh, well, I didn't, you know,
I didn't know she was going into
all this to, like, kind of move
farther away from me.
|
| 00:07:09 | >> I don't want to use--i
really don't want you to leave
this feeling like your
relationship is threatened,
'cause that is not the goal
here.
|
| 00:07:15 | The goal is to move you both
along in a healthy way.
|
| 00:07:17 | >> Yep.
|
| 00:07:18 | >> And you should know this is
the way it always is.
|
| 00:07:20 | This is a routine experience of
couples when somebody's in
treatment.
|
| 00:07:24 | What you're feeling is
completely normal.
|
| 00:07:26 | >> And that's what I want to
understand.
|
| 00:07:28 | Like, I want, when she gets out,
to--i want to know the language
and, like, the steps and so
forth.
|
| 00:07:33 | How to make us better.
|
| 00:07:34 | ..it's not about me, you
know?
|
| 00:07:37 | >> Well, it's about each of you
individually and you guys as a
couple.
|
| 00:07:40 | >> Whenever any addiction is
treated, there's always a big
change in one person, and the
other person--and so you--
in a relationship, you kind of
fit like a lock and key.
|
| 00:07:49 | And all of a sudden, the key's
changing.
|
| 00:07:51 | It's like, "well, wait a minute.
|
| 00:07:51 | That doesn't fit the way it used
"
well, the lock has to change
too, so they start fitting
together again.
|
| 00:07:56 | So as you move along, you come
together repeatedly in the
growth.
|
| 00:08:00 | Otherwise, one's down here and
one's up here, going, "hey,
"
so one of two things happen.
|
| 00:08:04 | Either you pull the key back
down where they were and nothing
changes, or they stay apart.
|
| 00:08:11 | And neither do you want.
|
| 00:08:12 | You want to come along for the
ride.
|
| 00:08:14 | >> Absolutely, absolutely.
|
| 00:08:15 | And I'm totally, absolutely,
100%, 110%, willing to do
whatever my wife feels is right.
|
| 00:08:23 | >> Kendra.
|
| 00:08:26 | What's going on?
|
| 00:08:28 | ..
|
| 00:08:31 | It's not about knowing the
language.
|
| 00:08:34 | >> It's about doing the work.
|
| 00:08:35 | It's about doing the work.
|
| 00:08:36 | You have to do work too.
|
| 00:08:37 | Same work she's done, you gotta
do.
|
| 00:08:39 | >> I-i'm totally down for that.
|
| 00:08:41 | >> I hear him say he's ready to
do some work.
|
| 00:08:44 | >> Yeah.
|
| 00:08:45 | >> I'm here.
|
| 00:08:46 | I'm totally here, you know?
|
| 00:08:49 | I'm not half here, I'm here.
|
| 00:08:54 | >> Kendra is now dealing with
two addictions, and if she's
going to have any chance of
success, she desperately needs
the aftercare program.
|
| 00:09:02 | I'm afraid she's feeling that,
somehow, participating in the
program would jeopardize her
marriage.
|
| 00:09:06 | I hope lukas can convince her
otherwise, because if kendra
chooses not to participate, i
really fear for her recovery.
|
| 00:09:14 | >> I love you.
|
| 00:09:19 | >> So what's your plan when you
get out here?
|
| 00:09:22 | What are you thinking?
|
| 00:09:23 | >> I think it's just gonna be
easier for me to stay on a
strict, straight program, you
know, to try to go right into a
..
|
| 00:09:30 | >> I can't even trust my gut.
|
| 00:09:31 | I just don't know.
|
| 00:09:32 | That's how bad it is.
|
| 00:09:33 | LIKE, [sighs].
|
| 00:09:34 | ..jumping
OUT OF MY [bleep] SKIN JUST--
I need to just mellow, get
mellow at my house and just kind
of take it all in, 'cause it's
just--there's so much.
|
| 00:09:44 | >> Yeah.
|
| 00:09:46 | >> And, like, my head's
spinning.
|
| 00:09:48 | I'M JUST [bleep] WHFFT!
|
| 00:09:52 | [sighs]
>> Phil is really on the fence
about the aftercare program,
and he's worried about leaving
rehab in general.
|
| 00:09:59 | Since jill will be running the
aftercare program, I asked her
to meet with him to discuss some
of his concerns about the
future.
|
| 00:10:06 | >> I'm frightened to leave here.
|
| 00:10:08 | >> What's going on?
|
| 00:10:09 | >> I-i-i identified as a sex
..sure
if I was a sex and love addict.
|
| 00:10:16 | >> Mm-hmm.
|
| 00:10:17 | >> And then I kind of think
about my, um, past a little bit,
and my relationships, and I was
definitely a love addict.
|
| 00:10:25 | You know, and that's where I get
confused with the intimacy
issues as well.
|
| 00:10:29 | Like, are my intimate, like--
see, I 'cause I think snuggling
is intimate, and sleeping with
..
|
| 00:10:34 | >> Sure.
|
| 00:10:35 | >> But other people think that
getting to know a person inside
is intimate, right?
|
| 00:10:38 | Is that where I'm missing--
I mean, like, where's the--
>> well, there's physical
intimacy and being able to be
close, you know, and there's
emotional intimacy, where i
start layer by layer showing you
who I really am.
|
| 00:10:51 | That's true intimacy.
|
| 00:10:53 | >> Mm-hmm.
|
| 00:10:53 | >> When you're in your
addiction, love and/or sex
addiction, you're only gonna be
bringing in and attracting
people that are operating at
that same frequency as you.
|
| 00:11:04 | Right?
|
| 00:11:05 | >> Yeah. no, definitely.
|
| 00:11:06 | >> So I think you should stay
single for at least six months.
|
| 00:11:09 | >> I agree, I know I have to
stay single for six months, but
I'm frightened to leave here--
>> normally, I make people do a
year.
|
| 00:11:16 | >> There's no way.
|
| 00:11:17 | >> I know, that's why i--
>> are you talking about sex?
|
| 00:11:21 | >> Sex, dating.
|
| 00:11:22 | >> How can I not have sex for
six months?
|
| 00:11:24 | No, seriously.
|
| 00:11:25 | >> What's the biggest fear?
|
| 00:11:26 | >> [scoffs]
>> Masturbation will be
reintroduced, but sex with
another human being will be off
the table.
|
| 00:11:32 | >> IT'S GONNA MAKE ME [bleep]
Crazy, that if I just
masturbate and masturbate and
masturbate, and I have no human
touch, it's gonna--
the fact that we can't even--
DO YOU KNOW HOW [bleep] BAD I
Need to spoon right now?
|
| 00:11:42 | Like, I'm jump--i'd rather spoon
THAN HAVE SEX ANY [bleep] DAY
Right now.
|
| 00:11:45 | Look at my face.
|
| 00:11:47 | I AM [bleep] BROKEN FROM THIS
[bleep].
|
| 00:11:49 | This is not like what you think
it's gonna be.
|
| 00:11:56 | >> Welcome to your graduation
ceremony, where we take this
opportunity to acknowledge this
group.
|
| 00:12:01 | >> You've helped me to see a lot
further than I could have ever
hoped.
|
| 00:12:07 | >> I bet it feels strange to
hear people talking about
strength.
|
| 00:12:11 | You are actually allowing people
to see that now.
|
| 00:12:14 | >> So at this point, I'd like
the treatment staff to bring in
a symbol of peace, and a very
secret ingredient.
|
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|
| 00:17:01 | [knocking]
>> Gentlemen, it's 7:00.
|
| 00:17:07 | It's the last morning.
|
| 00:17:08 | Get up.
|
| 00:17:10 | [laughing]
Look at you gents.
|
| 00:17:12 | That's what you look like first
thing in the morning.
|
| 00:17:14 | That's what I missed out on
every morning.
|
| 00:17:16 | >> Nice.
|
| 00:17:19 | >> [grunting]
Uncle phil!
|
| 00:17:21 | >> I CAN'T [bleep] WAIT TO GET
Out of here.
|
| 00:17:23 | I really can't.
|
| 00:17:24 | So far, I don't know about
..
|
| 00:17:28 | Jill gave me a death sentence
with six months of celibacy.
|
| 00:17:32 | I mean, that, to me, is like,
god, I can't even think about
that.
|
| 00:17:36 | It's killing me, you know?
|
| 00:17:37 | It's put me in a weird mood.
|
| 00:17:39 | >> All right, guys!
|
| 00:17:41 | We need to be ready.
|
| 00:17:42 | Graduation time.
|
| 00:17:45 | >> I am very nervous about
graduation.
|
| 00:17:49 | Um, I'm really nervous to
just jump back into life.
|
| 00:17:53 | Um, for the past eight years
I've been penny flame from the
moment I wake up to the moment i
go to sleep.
|
| 00:17:59 | So I really am absolutely
terrified, mostly because i
don't know what's gonna happen.
|
| 00:18:04 | >> Okay, we're gonna have to
move as a group, okay?
|
| 00:18:08 | This is it, it's the last time
you have to listen to what i
have to say.
|
| 00:18:13 | >> I'm just like--i'm just
having, like, a lot of anxiety.
|
| 00:18:15 | Like I just am really stressed,
and, like, the more I think
about the more I'm stressed,
then the more stressed I get.
|
| 00:18:21 | Of course, I want to be
committed to aftercare, but I'm
a little--i'm a little unsure,
because nobody else here is,
like, in a relationship right
now, so I don't really have
anyone that, like, relates to
what I'm going through right
now.
|
| 00:18:35 | >> Okay.
|
| 00:18:37 | [Carolina Liar's
Show What I'm Looking For]
♪ ♪
|
| 00:18:44 | >> ♪ wait, I'm wrong ♪
|
| 00:18:49 | ♪ should've done better ♪
|
| 00:18:50 | ♪ than this ♪
|
| 00:18:53 | ♪ please, I'll be strong ♪
|
| 00:18:58 | ♪ I'm finding it hard ♪
|
| 00:18:59 | ♪ to resist ♪
|
| 00:19:01 | >> we have finally reached the
graduation ceremony.
|
| 00:19:04 | I am incredibly proud of these
seven courageous patients.
|
| 00:19:07 | Today is their chance to be
acknowledged for their work and
to recognize the work of their
peers.
|
| 00:19:13 | >> ♪ Oh, lord, I've been ♪
|
| 00:19:15 | ♪ waiting for you ♪
|
| 00:19:17 | >> welcome, guys.
|
| 00:19:18 | Welcome to your graduation
ceremony, where we take this
opportunity to acknowledge this
group who have worked so hard
for the last three weeks.
|
| 00:19:27 | The way today is gonna work is
each one of you will come up
here and take a moment to really
reflect upon the amount of
progress you've made and give
you an opportunity to give each
other final parting thoughts.
|
| 00:19:38 | So, jenny, if you'd begin the
process.
|
| 00:19:51 | >> Jenny, I never expected to
meet anybody who would touch me
as deeply as you have in the
last few weeks.
|
| 00:20:01 | You have been my best friend
throughout this adventure.
|
| 00:20:04 | I do believe in miracles.
|
| 00:20:06 | And you're the embodiment of
every miracle that I would ever
hope to see in another person.
|
| 00:20:12 | >> Thank you.
|
| 00:20:17 | >> Um, you know, it's hard to
express when somebody's gone
through so much change and
worked so hard.
|
| 00:20:23 | We'd like to say on behalf of
the treatment team, thank you
for sharing the beautiful woman
that jenny is.
|
| 00:20:29 | Sexual addiction, for the
most part, is an intimacy
problem.
|
| 00:20:31 | >> OH, YEAH. [laughs]
>> What are you thinking?
|
| 00:20:34 | >> Wall.
|
| 00:20:35 | >> Yeah.
|
| 00:20:36 | What's on the other side of
the wall?
|
| 00:20:39 | >> Um, hopefully a caring,
sensitive person.
|
| 00:20:43 | Who could have real, like,
meaningful relationships.
|
| 00:20:46 | >> That's what you want?
|
| 00:20:46 | >> Yeah.
|
| 00:20:48 | >> You've done an amazing amount
so far.
|
| 00:20:50 | Keep it going.
|
| 00:20:51 | And we're here for you.
|
| 00:20:52 | >> Thank you.
|
| 00:20:54 | ..
|
| 00:20:56 | When I came in here, I met these
seven strangers, and now I'm
leaving with some really
beautiful friends.
|
| 00:21:05 | I'm grateful for every, single
one of you.
|
| 00:21:08 | This has been the most amazing
experience of my life.
|
| 00:21:12 | Thank you.
|
| 00:21:13 | [applause]
..
|
| 00:21:27 | I think that you're amazing.
|
| 00:21:30 | You're honest.
|
| 00:21:32 | You didn't pretend to be
anything that you're not.
|
| 00:21:35 | >> I was just thinking about
family members taking advantage
of me.
|
| 00:21:39 | And, uh, not in just sexual
ways, but also in, uh, terribly
violent situations.
|
| 00:21:45 | >> I'm there with you.
|
| 00:21:46 | Just so you know.
|
| 00:21:47 | >> How old were you when you
lost faith in your family?
|
| 00:21:50 | ..i think the moment--
like two.
|
| 00:21:53 | >> Two?
|
| 00:21:54 | >> And I think everybody here
just looks up to you.
|
| 00:21:58 | I know that I do.
|
| 00:22:00 | I love you.
|
| 00:22:01 | >> I love you too.
|
| 00:22:04 | ..i don't know if
you're aware how powerful some
of the experiences I had with
you were.
|
| 00:22:09 | They were like breathtaking.
|
| 00:22:12 | >> He would beat me, and then
..
|
| 00:22:16 | >> He'd initiate the sex thing
then?
|
| 00:22:18 | >> Yeah.
|
| 00:22:19 | >> Whew.
|
| 00:22:20 | >> I felt utterly powerless.
|
| 00:22:23 | 'Cause I was.
|
| 00:22:24 | >> Yeah.
|
| 00:22:27 | >> [sobbing]
>> Thank you for sharing
humanity, and allowing us to be
in that space with you.
|
| 00:22:34 | I was deeply moved by a number
of things, and so, for that,
I thank you.
|
| 00:22:42 | >> I had no expectations when i
came to this.
|
| 00:22:46 | And I got a lot.
|
| 00:22:48 | I got to tell the truth, after
many years of totally being
disabled from the truth.
|
| 00:22:55 | You know, we are as sick as our
secrets.
|
| 00:22:59 | AND, UH, I HAD A LOT OF [bleep]
Secrets.
|
| 00:23:02 | But most of all, I sat with each
and every one of you and felt i
couldn't have done any of this
without you being there.
|
| 00:23:10 | I can't thank you enough, all of
you.
|
| 00:23:12 | [applause]
..
|
| 00:23:28 | I think that your change here
has been the most subtle
outwardly, but I think inwardly,
like, so dramatic.
|
| 00:23:35 | I think that you're incredible.
|
| 00:23:38 | You've shown yourself throughout
this whole time to be dignified,
strong, and the beautiful person
that you are.
|
| 00:23:44 | I'm so happy that I got to know
you.
|
| 00:23:48 | >> Ahh.
|
| 00:23:50 | >> Nicole, I think you have had
a lot of change.
|
| 00:23:53 | >> I'm in a relationship right
now.
|
| 00:23:55 | He does talk to me about our
future and stuff like that, and
no guy's ever done that before.
|
| 00:24:00 | >> Which is what you want,
right?
|
| 00:24:02 | >> Yeah.
|
| 00:24:03 | I mean, I just want to feel like
..
|
| 00:24:06 | >> Absolutely you're worthy.
|
| 00:24:09 | >> I know groups are hard for
you.
|
| 00:24:11 | A lot of your work is in
individual.
|
| 00:24:13 | I hope you'll continue that.
|
| 00:24:15 | Those individual experiences are
very, very powerful.
|
| 00:24:18 | ..okay?
|
| 00:24:19 | >> Okay.
|
| 00:24:20 | [chuckles and sniffles]
Um, it was really hard for
me, 'cause I been living on my
own since I was 16 years old.
|
| 00:24:28 | And I never had a roommate in my
life.
|
| 00:24:30 | So to all of a sudden inherit
six was really traumatic for me.
|
| 00:24:35 | My life is a revolving door.
|
| 00:24:37 | Like people just keep coming and
going, coming and going.
|
| 00:24:40 | And that's, you know, so it's
like I'm actually really used to
abandonment.
|
| 00:24:45 | I'M PRETTY [bleep], LIKE, USED
To it.
|
| 00:24:48 | Um, but it turned out to be
really a beautiful experience.
|
| 00:24:51 | So thank you all for, um,
showing me what it's like to
have a family.
|
| 00:24:57 | ..um, not abandoning me.
|
| 00:25:00 | Thank you.
|
| 00:25:02 | [applause]
>> The courage it took to come
here.
|
| 00:25:15 | And to say, "you know, I may
"
>> now's the point when you tell
me what your aftercare plans
are.
|
| 00:25:25 | Without meetings, without the
regular support, without ongoing
..
|
| 00:25:30 | o 28% more of a workout for your
butt,
up to 11% more for your hamstrings and calves,
and 0% will know the reason is on your feet.
|
| 00:27:43 | Reebok easytone
with balance-ball-inspired technology.
|
| 00:27:45 | Better legs and a better buttwith every step.
|
| 00:28:36 | >> Oh, boy.
|
| 00:28:38 | [laughter]
Can I get a big tissue, like?
|
| 00:28:45 | >> Oh, james.
|
| 00:28:48 | You're a dope kid.
|
| 00:28:51 | You are an inspiration to all
young men out there.
|
| 00:28:56 | >> What are you feeling?
|
| 00:28:57 | >> There's tears in your eyes.
|
| 00:28:58 | >> I just feel everybody's
stress.
|
| 00:29:01 | Everybody's so different here.
|
| 00:29:03 | We can all try to relate,
but we can't.
|
| 00:29:05 | We're all here for ourselves,
and we gotta remember that,
that let's fix ourselves first
and then we can move on.
|
| 00:29:14 | >> You coming here and
addressing that, you know,
you want to change is really
beautiful.
|
| 00:29:22 | Thank you.
|
| 00:29:28 | >> Well, sir, I wanted to
acknowledge how difficult it is
as a young man to do what you've
done.
|
| 00:29:37 | >> You know, everything that i
do, I'm always constantly
thinking about, you know, what's
next or--
>> is it masturbation?
|
| 00:29:43 | >> Yeah, I mean, it's keeping me
locked up in my house pretty
much, not letting me go check
the waves, not letting me just
kind of live a normal life.
|
| 00:29:53 | >> I've treated a lot of young
men, and very few have embraced
change the way you have.
|
| 00:29:58 | Thank you.
|
| 00:30:00 | >> Jeez, you guys.
|
| 00:30:02 | It's like a family now.
|
| 00:30:04 | I've grown to love all you guys
so much.
|
| 00:30:07 | I would have never been able
to do this without you guys.
|
| 00:30:09 | I would have ran away the first
day probably.
|
| 00:30:12 | I was just going through so much
stuff.
|
| 00:30:15 | You know, I love you guys all
so much, and just a great
blessing, and I thank you
very much.
|
| 00:30:21 | [applause]
>> Amber.
|
| 00:30:36 | You gave me the most, and
without really knowing it.
|
| 00:30:39 | It was you that day that threw
the eggs at the wall, and I will
never ever forget as long as
I live.
|
| 00:30:46 | You look like an angel.
|
| 00:30:49 | >> This is for the guys who
[bleep] ME ONE [bleep] TIME.
|
| 00:30:52 | you don't even come
back for more?
|
| 00:30:56 | I had to prove everything to
the world.
|
| 00:30:58 | It was exhausting and lonely.
|
| 00:31:01 | >> And what do you want to tell
the world?
|
| 00:31:03 | >> That I'm good enough.
|
| 00:31:05 | >> I saw you come alive,
and come alive as the vibrant,
strong, empowered woman I know
you are.
|
| 00:31:12 | The woman that will make great
decisions for the rest of your
life.
|
| 00:31:18 | >> Ah.
|
| 00:31:19 | >> I bet it feels strange to
hear people talking about
strength, right?
|
| 00:31:24 | >> Very.
|
| 00:31:24 | >> You are an extremely
powerful, strong woman.
|
| 00:31:29 | And you're actually allowing
people to see that now.
|
| 00:31:31 | It's probably something that
used to scare you.
|
| 00:31:33 | But now you can see it is part
of who amber is.
|
| 00:31:35 | You can own that strength.
|
| 00:31:37 | So congratulations.
|
| 00:31:38 | >> Thank you.
|
| 00:31:39 | Oh, boy.
|
| 00:31:42 | Yeah, I was here a short while
..detoxing.
|
| 00:31:46 | For that whole time I was sober,
I was just--i was still stuck
on some unavailable guy, and
that's not sobriety.
|
| 00:31:57 | But I think I got a really good
shot at it now.
|
| 00:32:03 | And I thank you so much, really.
|
| 00:32:05 | Thank you all, thank you.
|
| 00:32:07 | [applause]
>> Oh, boy.
|
| 00:32:13 | >> Ooh, phil.
|
| 00:32:16 | >> Hi.
|
| 00:32:18 | Well, a couple things.
|
| 00:32:19 | >> Okay.
|
| 00:32:21 | [laughter]
>> I think you're the whole
package, everything.
|
| 00:32:26 | You got the exterior.
|
| 00:32:27 | You're funny, you're charming,
and you're courageous.
|
| 00:32:30 | The courage it took to come
here and to say, "you know,
"
>> when amber says, "why didn't
"
that's me.
|
| 00:32:41 | That's what I do.
|
| 00:32:43 | How many people like her are
out there 'cause of me, you
know?
|
| 00:32:47 | >> Mm-hmm, mm-hmm.
|
| 00:32:48 | >> And I learned that men do
feel.
|
| 00:32:51 | Because I thought that they were
heartless.
|
| 00:32:54 | Gosh, you just affected me
a lot.
|
| 00:32:56 | [mouths words]
>> Nice work.
|
| 00:33:02 | >> Thank you.
|
| 00:33:02 | >> You were the first to really
jump on in.
|
| 00:33:05 | And we all thank you for that.
|
| 00:33:07 | It opened up the door to
everyone being open emotionally,
and that takes courage.
|
| 00:33:12 | I'm not worried about you.
|
| 00:33:13 | Congratulations.
|
| 00:33:15 | ..
|
| 00:33:19 | I'm gonna finally be a grown-up.
|
| 00:33:23 | And I'm honored that all of you
have come to me and helped me,
and I've been able to help you.
|
| 00:33:28 | And for that, I'm truly
grateful.
|
| 00:33:30 | It's a miracle.
|
| 00:33:31 | Thank you, guys.
|
| 00:33:32 | I love you all, I really do.
|
| 00:33:34 | [applause]
>> Kendra jade rossi.
|
| 00:33:44 | I want to say that you're an
amazing person, and I know it
was really hard for you to,
like, talk about what you did
in group.
|
| 00:33:53 | >> You don't leave your bed?
|
| 00:33:54 | >> No.
|
| 00:33:56 | >> Could you do that if your
husband wasn't home?
|
| 00:33:58 | >> He's--we're always together.
|
| 00:34:00 | >> Is he your drug?
|
| 00:34:01 | >> No.
|
| 00:34:03 | Why are you smiling?
|
| 00:34:04 | >> He's a little bit of your
drug.
|
| 00:34:07 | >> I really hope that you get
out of bed every day.
|
| 00:34:11 | You know, just call someone and
go have lunch, or call me, or,
you know, just do something,
but not isolate, you know?
|
| 00:34:18 | 'Cause the world is just missing
one less beautiful person out
there when you isolate and you
stay in your room all day.
|
| 00:34:24 | I wish you well.
|
| 00:34:25 | >> [mouths words]
>> Once again, courage and
honesty.
|
| 00:34:30 | Really very courageous.
|
| 00:34:32 | It's been a real honor and
a pleasure and a privilege.
|
| 00:34:35 | Keep going.
|
| 00:34:36 | >> Okay.
|
| 00:34:37 | My new family.
|
| 00:34:39 | It's so hard for me today.
|
| 00:34:42 | But the truth of the matter
is I don't want to leave you
guys today or any other day.
|
| 00:34:46 | I hope that you're all always
in my life.
|
| 00:34:49 | I want to thank you guys
especially because you really
have absolutely changed my life,
and I thank you for it.
|
| 00:34:57 | [applause]
>> I've listened to a lot of
ceremonies, and that was
probably universally the most
moving testimonials I've ever
heard.
|
| 00:35:12 | And I'm not surprised.
|
| 00:35:14 | It's a credit to the work you've
all done.
|
| 00:35:17 | And now's the point when you
tell me what your aftercare
plans are.
|
| 00:35:19 | We've recommended an intensive
outpatient program.
|
| 00:35:22 | So we're gonna go down the line.
|
| 00:35:23 | You're gonna tell me what your
plans are.
|
| 00:35:24 | Jenny.
|
| 00:35:31 | >> Do I have time for it?
|
| 00:35:32 | >> It's a lot of time.
|
| 00:35:33 | It's a lot of commitment.
|
| 00:35:34 | >> I have to work.
|
| 00:35:35 | I have stuff to do.
|
| 00:35:36 | >> Your sobriety needs to come
first.
|
| 00:38:47 | >> Now's the point when you
tell me what your aftercare
plans are.
|
| 00:38:50 | We've recommended an intensive
outpatient program.
|
| 00:38:52 | So we're gonna go down the line.
|
| 00:38:53 | You're gonna tell me what your
plans are.
|
| 00:38:55 | Jenny.
|
| 00:38:57 | drew, I'm getting a date,
and I'm going straight to the
bar.
|
| 00:39:00 | [laughter]
I'm not.
|
| 00:39:04 | I'm gonna do all of the
aftercare.
|
| 00:39:08 | >> Wonderful, excellent.
|
| 00:39:09 | We'll see you on monday.
|
| 00:39:13 | Duncan.
|
| 00:39:14 | >> Well, I thought long and hard
about it, dr. drew.
|
| 00:39:17 | And I thought that I would do
the aftercare plan.
|
| 00:39:21 | [applause]
>> Nicole, plan?
|
| 00:39:29 | ..
|
| 00:39:33 | Maybe in the future I do want
to do the aftercare plan.
|
| 00:39:37 | >> So you're not ready for an
intensive program now?
|
| 00:39:39 | >> No.
|
| 00:39:40 | >> Are you willing to do any
individual therapy?
|
| 00:39:42 | >> Yes.
|
| 00:39:43 | >> Okay, so we'll give you
some referrals for that.
|
| 00:39:45 | Obviously not as good a plan
as an intensive program.
|
| 00:39:48 | But you've still got the full
support of us and your new
family.
|
| 00:39:51 | >> Okay.
|
| 00:39:52 | >> So we wish you the best.
|
| 00:39:53 | >> Okay.
|
| 00:39:55 | >> James.
|
| 00:39:56 | >> DR. DREW. [chuckles]
Um, gosh, I would love to,
but I'm getting ready to go on
tour for the next eight months.
|
| 00:40:04 | And, you know, my career is
something that's really gonna
help me, and I think that it's
gonna be my rehab.
|
| 00:40:09 | And it's gonna be the next step
in my life.
|
| 00:40:12 | And you guys have opened the
doors.
|
| 00:40:15 | >> Be careful.
|
| 00:40:16 | It's slippery out there without
meetings, without the regular
support, without ongoing work.
|
| 00:40:21 | If you have trouble, come on
back.
|
| 00:40:23 | Door is always open, okay?
|
| 00:40:24 | >> I'll definitely keep in
touch.
|
| 00:40:26 | >> All right.
|
| 00:40:27 | >> I'll call you.
|
| 00:40:27 | >> Good luck.
|
| 00:40:31 | Amber, what do you think?
|
| 00:40:34 | >> I get frustrated sometimes
and pessimistic 'cause I feel
like I have to do all this
therapy just to live a normal
life.
|
| 00:40:41 | But I also realize that if i
don't get somewhat healthy
I'll have no chance at all.
|
| 00:40:49 | So I would like to try it.
|
| 00:40:51 | >> The intensive program?
|
| 00:40:52 | >> The intensive program.
|
| 00:40:52 | >> Great, excellent, good.
|
| 00:40:57 | Phil.
|
| 00:40:59 | >> I know how hard going through
this process was for me, you
know?
|
| 00:41:03 | I had no idea what I was, you
know, was thinking.
|
| 00:41:07 | And then I took a deep, hard,
look at myself, and I absolutely
need it.
|
| 00:41:12 | Period.
|
| 00:41:12 | >> All in.
|
| 00:41:13 | >> Yes.
|
| 00:41:14 | >> Fantastic.
|
| 00:41:18 | Kendra, what do you think?
|
| 00:41:21 | >> I thought about it long and
hard today.
|
| 00:41:25 | Do I need it?
|
| 00:41:26 | Do I have time for it?
|
| 00:41:27 | >> It's a lot of time.
|
| 00:41:28 | It's a lot of commitment.
|
| 00:41:29 | >> I have to work.
|
| 00:41:30 | I have stuff to do.
|
| 00:41:31 | >> Your sobriety needs to come
first.
|
| 00:41:41 | >> The answer is yes.
|
| 00:41:42 | I'm absolutely committed to my
recovery.
|
| 00:41:45 | [applause]
>> So at this point I'd like
the treatment staff to bring in
a symbol that we thought would
be appropriate.
|
| 00:41:57 | Each of you will hold in these
baskets a symbol of peace, love,
forgiveness, and a very secret
ingredient.
|
| 00:42:05 | >> Ohh! aah! oh!
|
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| 00:45:21 | >> We wanted to create a moment
that really marked the progress
you've made and really
acknowledge the work you've
done.
|
| 00:45:27 | So at this point I'd like the
treatment staff to bring in
a symbol that we thought would
be appropriate.
|
| 00:45:31 | Each of you will hold--
>> thank you, sharky.
|
| 00:45:33 | In each of these baskets
is a white dove--
historically a symbol of peace,
love, forgiveness, and a very
secret ingredient, faith.
|
| 00:45:45 | It's been a pleasure,
a privilege, an honor.
|
| 00:45:47 | I cannot express how pleased i
am to have been a part of this.
|
| 00:45:50 | And I thank you for that.
|
| 00:45:51 | Congratulations.
|
| 00:45:53 | Thank you.
|
| 00:45:54 | On the count of three, let's
release these symbols to
eternity.
|
| 00:45:59 | ..two...three.
|
| 00:46:03 | Here we go.
|
| 00:46:05 | >> Oh!
|
| 00:46:06 | >> Ha!
|
| 00:46:07 | >> Ahh!
|
| 00:46:16 | >> There we go.
|
| 00:46:19 | >> Fly, little one.
|
| 00:46:21 | Fly.
|
| 00:46:25 | >> Okay, I love you.
|
| 00:46:26 | >> I love you too.
|
| 00:46:27 | >> I love you.
|
| 00:46:29 | >> Hello, darling.
|
| 00:46:34 | >> This has been an amazing
journey.
|
| 00:46:38 | >> I don't want to go.
|
| 00:46:40 | >> Just three weeks ago,
eight people entered the
pasadena recovery center to seek
treatment for their sex and
love addictions.
|
| 00:46:47 | >> How in god's name am I going
to go 21 days without having
sex?
|
| 00:46:56 | >> This addiction is so
shame-evoking that simply coming
forward to get help was
an incredible act of courage.
|
| 00:47:03 | >> This is harder than any other
addiction, I would say.
|
| 00:47:07 | >> I've been depressed.
|
| 00:47:08 | I've wanted to kill myself.
|
| 00:47:09 | I'm the loneliest person on the
[bleep] PLANET.
|
| 00:47:12 | >> They have faced trauma that
they'd buried for a lifetime.
|
| 00:47:15 | >> I was molested.
|
| 00:47:17 | It's my first childhood
memories.
|
| 00:47:19 | >> What happened?
|
| 00:47:22 | I lost everything.
|
| 00:47:25 | >> And they realized for the
first time that they are not
alone.
|
| 00:47:29 | >> Nothing you ever do will
let me down.
|
| 00:47:33 | >> It has been an incredibly
painful journey.
|
| 00:47:36 | >> I had flashbacks of being
raped.
|
| 00:47:38 | >> Although not everyone made it
to the end.
|
| 00:47:41 | This is not working.
|
| 00:47:42 | >> You know what, you're
A [bleep] DOCTOR, DREW.
|
| 00:47:44 | I'M PACKED AND [bleep] READY.
|
| 00:47:48 | >> I know that they all have
been changed by their time here.
|
| 00:47:51 | >> ♪ I'm coming to terms ♪
|
| 00:47:54 | ♪ I'm starting to learn ♪
|
| 00:47:57 | ♪ this ain't all ♪
|
| 00:47:59 | ♪ it's cracked up to be ♪
|
| 00:48:02 | ♪ 'cause I'm using you ♪
|
| 00:48:05 | ♪ you're using me ♪
|
| 00:48:07 | ♪ it's never as easy ♪
|
| 00:48:10 | ♪ as we believe ♪
|
| 00:48:13 | [laughter]
♪ ♪
|
| 00:48:21 | >> let's all hug.
|
| 00:48:22 | Ohh.
|
| 00:48:25 | >> Some of these patients will
stumble on the path to recovery.
|
| 00:48:28 | But addiction is a lifelong
battle, a battle that I know
ultimately they can win.
|
| 00:48:44 | >> ♪ Show me ♪
|
| 00:48:44 | ♪ what I'm looking for ♪
|
| 00:48:48 | ♪ show me what I'm looking ♪
|
| 00:49:26 | >> after group, I just wanted to
be alone.
|
| 00:49:30 | And so I went up into the sauna
where pretty much no one else
could fit in there and just sat
there and cried.
|
| 00:49:36 | [sniffles]
>> Jenna?
|
| 00:49:41 | >> [sobs, sniffles]
>> Jenna.
|
| 00:49:45 | Oh.
|
| 00:49:45 | >> [sobs more loudly]
>> Come on out.
|
| 00:49:47 | All right, all right, come--
come on out here with me.
|
| 00:49:49 | >> I don't want to.
|
| 00:49:50 | >> Like, we used to be friends.
|
| 00:49:52 | But the thing is, I can't take
the negativity.
|
| 00:49:54 | 'Cause honestly if I was to
hang out with her all the time,
I would probably turn negative.
|
| 00:49:58 | >> Be depressed.
|
| 00:49:58 | >> Yeah.
|
| 00:49:59 | >> They all were positive to my
face and then decided to gang
up on me.
|
| 00:50:04 | >> She didn't even realize it
herself, how negative she was.
|
| 00:50:07 | I just knew that steven and i
needed to make a breakthrough
with her.
|
| 00:50:10 | Okay, this is what you need to
do.
|
| 00:50:12 | You gotta be bigger than that.
|
| 00:50:13 | Be more positive than that.
|
| 00:50:15 | And let it turn around on them.
|
| 00:50:17 | >> I'm not letting the girls
drive me out of the house.
|
| 00:50:19 | I'm here for me.
|
| 00:50:20 | If they don't think I try hard,
[bleep] THEM.
|
| 00:50:27 | >> Ladies, will you come down
here, please?
|
| 00:50:29 | Lesson number six at mytough
loveboot camp is all about
deal breakers--yours and his.
|
| 00:50:35 | For any relationship to
progress, all the cards have to
be on the table.
|
| 00:50:39 | Then you can figure out if you
want to continue dating.
|
| 00:50:41 | Ladies, you all look very nice,
which is only appropriate,
because it's going to be your
time to be in the spotlight.
|
| 00:50:47 | >> Oh!
|
| 00:50:48 | [murmuring]
>> I'll meet you there.
|
| 00:50:50 | >> It's about time to get our
time in the spotlight.
|
| 00:50:52 | I'm thinking some kind of like
beauty thing, you know, being
romantic.
|
| 00:50:55 | So I'm excited.
|
| 00:51:04 | [dramatic drumbeats]
>> Oh, no.
|
| 00:51:10 | >> I see the--the jury on the
side of me, and they're all men,
"
I see joann in the
black robe, and I see steve
dressed up, and I'm like,
"well, maybe we're doing like a
movie part or maybe it's a soap
"
so I'm excited.
|
| 00:51:26 | I'm like, "okay, I'm ready for
"
>> ladies, welcome totough love
court.
|
| 00:51:33 | Today each one of you will
defend yourselves against a
charge for a dating felony,
crime of love, or just
inappropriate behavior.
|
| 00:51:43 | >> Oh, my gosh.
|
| 00:51:44 | >> And you'll be judged by this
all-male jury, who will deem you
dateable or undateable.
|
| 00:51:50 | Women often put men on trial for
their past.
|
| 00:51:52 | So I thought it was time to give
the women a taste of their own
medicine.
|
| 00:51:56 | What the girls need to realize
is that for a man it's not so
much about what you did, but how
you make your case.
|
| 00:52:01 | The honorable love judge,
joann ward, will preside.
|
| 00:52:05 | tough love
boot camp vs. alicia.
|
| 00:52:09 | >> Oh!
|
| 00:52:12 | I was thinking about every
bad thing I've ever done to any
guy in my entire life.
|
| 00:52:17 | I don't really need everybody
and their mother to hear about
it.
|
| 00:52:21 | So I was a little nervous.
|
| 00:52:22 | >> Alicia, you are here to face
the charge of cheating on your
fiance.
|
| 00:52:27 | >> Ohh.
|
| 00:52:31 | That is, by far, the worst thing
I've ever done.
|
| 00:52:33 | And then he's gotta throw
"fiance" in there.
|
| 00:52:35 | I mean, i--i got--i gotta tell
my story before you just throw
it out there.
|
| 00:52:40 | >> Cheating is probably the
number one deal breaker for men.
|
| 00:52:43 | But if alicia could come off
remorseful and convincing that
it won't happen again, there is
a chance these guys will let her
off the hook.
|
| 00:52:49 | Alicia, how long were you
engaged?
|
| 00:52:51 | ..a week.
|
| 00:52:56 | >> Did he know you cheated?
|
| 00:52:58 | >> I think he had a pretty good
idea.
|
| 00:53:00 | >> So did the guy that you
cheated on your fiance with mean
anything to you?
|
| 00:53:04 | >> Looking back at it now, no.
|
| 00:53:06 | But at that point I thought he
did.
|
| 00:53:10 | >> So you hooked up with him.
|
| 00:53:12 | Maybe you talked to him for
a couple of weeks.
|
| 00:53:14 | You realized you wanted to be
with your fiance instead.
|
| 00:53:17 | >> Felt a lot of pressure from
my family to be back with my
fiance.
|
| 00:53:22 | >> And how did it end?
|
| 00:53:24 | ..i had met another guy.
|
| 00:53:26 | [chuckles]
>> And did you end up dating
that other guy?
|
| 00:53:31 | >> I did.
|
| 00:53:32 | >> Did you start dating him
before or after you ended the
engagement?
|
| 00:53:35 | >> Before.
|
| 00:53:36 | >> So you actually cheated on
your fiance twice.
|
| 00:53:39 | >> Yes.
|
| 00:53:41 | >> You may be dismissed.
|
| 00:53:46 | >>Tough loveboot camp vs.
|
| 00:53:48 | Kanisha.
|
| 00:53:51 | >> Kanisha.
|
| 00:53:53 | Your charge is the slicing of
tires and keying of an
ex-boyfriend's car.
|
| 00:54:00 | >> [sputtering, laughing]
>> Another no-go for men:
Destroying personal property.
|
| 00:54:07 | Kanisha has a lot of explaining
to do if she doesn't want to be
deemed undateable by the jury of
men.
|
| 00:54:13 | So was this planned?
|
| 00:54:14 | >> It was spur of the moment.
|
| 00:54:17 | >> How did you do it?
|
| 00:54:19 | >> It was midnight.
|
| 00:54:20 | And me and my friend, we dressed
in all black and made sure the
coast was clear.
|
| 00:54:24 | And I keyed his car with my keys
and I slashed all four tires
with a butcher knife.
|
| 00:54:31 | >> All four?
|
| 00:54:32 | >> All four.
|
| 00:54:35 | >> How much did you key his car?
|
| 00:54:37 | >> I went around the whole
entire car.
|
| 00:54:39 | >> [quiet chuckling]
>> Did you ever apologize for
it?
|
| 00:54:42 | >> No, I did not.
|
| 00:54:43 | But he hurt me really bad.
|
| 00:54:45 | Payback is a bitch.
|
| 00:54:50 | >> I think we've heard enough,
kanisha.
|
| 00:54:56 | >>Tough loveboot camp vs. liz.
|
| 00:55:02 | >> Liz, you're here to face the
charge of being a make out
queen.
|
| 00:55:05 | >> [laughter]
>> And a tease.
|
| 00:55:08 | >> Oh!
|
| 00:55:11 | Basically what it comes down to
is I got morals but I also got
needs.
|
| 00:55:16 | But there's a lot of risk
involved.
|
| 00:55:18 | THERE'S STDs, THERE'S GETTING
Preggo, I mean--
I just go as far as--as I can.
|
| 00:55:24 | Maybe like a boob touch.
|
| 00:55:25 | >> [laughter]
>> I'm just saying, I have needs
but i-i--at the end of the day,
I also want to be okay with
myself.
|
| 00:55:31 | ..
|
| 00:55:32 | >> Mm-hmm.
|
| 00:55:33 | >> How many guys would you make
out with?
|
| 00:55:34 | >> I mean, there is the
margarita mondays, and taco
tuesdays, and wild west
wednesdays, thirsty thursday,
given friday, saturday, and
an occasional sunday funday.
|
| 00:55:43 | >> Do you consider yourself a
tease?
|
| 00:55:48 | >> Yeah.
|
| 00:55:50 | >> You're dismissed.
|
| 00:55:52 | >> I just want to be loved.
|
| 00:55:54 | I'm just lonely.
|
| 00:55:56 | Is it wrong to want someone to
hold you?
|
| 00:55:58 | Is that a crime of love, to be
held at night and to be
in a nook?
|
| 00:56:02 | I think not.
|
| 00:56:03 | I think not.
|
| 00:56:04 | >>Tough loveboot camp vs.
|
| 00:56:06 | Rocky.
|
| 00:56:08 | [bangs gavel]
>> Rocky, you are charged with
having a zoo for a house.
|
| 00:56:12 | >> [laughter]
>> How many pets do you have?
|
| 00:56:17 | >> 32.
|
| 00:56:18 | >> I'm sorry, could you repeat
that, please?
|
| 00:56:21 | >> 32.
|
| 00:56:22 | >> 32.
|
| 00:56:24 | >> I have, uh, like, four
turtles, a guinea pig, a bunny,
12 mice.
|
| 00:56:29 | a pit bull,
a papillon, a little poodle that
I just rescued from next door,
a miniature pinscher, and a
chihuahua.
|
| 00:56:38 | Eight cats.
|
| 00:56:40 | >> I mean, I knew she was a
crazy lunatic, but I didn't know
she had 32 pets.
|
| 00:56:46 | It's no wonder that rocky
smells like animal butt.
|
| 00:56:49 | >> Did you come up with any
songs for your pets?
|
| 00:56:51 | >> When I was training chichi,
you know, to go on the paper
before he went outside, I'd go,
♪ he goes pee-pee ♪
|
| 00:56:58 | ♪ on the paper ♪
|
| 00:56:59 | >> [laughing]
>> ♪ He goes ♪
|
| 00:57:03 | ♪ pee-pee on the paper ♪
|
| 00:57:05 | ♪ and he loves to poo-poo ♪
|
| 00:57:06 | ♪ on the paper ♪
|
| 00:57:08 | ♪ he goes pee-pee ♪
|
| 00:57:09 | ♪ on the paper ♪
|
| 00:57:11 | ♪ and he poo-poos ♪
|
| 00:57:12 | ♪ on the paper ♪
|
| 00:57:14 | [laughs]
>> Whew.
|
| 00:57:19 | >>Tough loveboot camp vs.
|
| 00:57:22 | Tina.
|
| 00:57:25 | >> So steve gets to tina, and
I'm thinking it's gonna be the
most retarded crime ever.
|
| 00:57:30 | What could tina have possibly
done?
|
| 00:57:32 | >> Tina.
|
| 00:57:33 | >> Hi, steve.
|
| 00:57:35 | >> You are here to face a very
serious charge.
|
| 00:57:37 | >> Ooh, gosh.
|
| 00:57:39 | >> You are accused of having an
affair with a married man.
|
| 00:57:45 | >> Tina!
|
| 00:57:48 | ..
|
| 00:57:50 | Gentlemen of the jury, does
anyone have any thoughts?
|
| 00:57:53 | >> She could deflate a hard-on
at 300 yards.
|
| 00:57:55 | >> Seems that she probably
shouldn't even be let into
society, much less a
relationship.
|
| 00:57:59 | ..steve, can i--
>> you have to ask adam whether
or not he's ready to be a father
figure.
|
| 00:58:04 | >> I'm scared that he's gonna
walk away.
|
| 00:58:07 | ..
|
| 00:58:07 | I'm not gonna allow you to feel
bad for yourself.
|
| 00:58:09 | God as my witness.
|
| 00:58:10 | You are going to walk out of
this boot camp a changed woman.
|
| 00:01:59 | % More of a workout for your butt,
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| 00:02:10 | Better legs and a better buttwith every step.
|
| 00:02:49 | >> I'm going home sober.
|
| 00:02:52 | And my home has got to be safe
for me too.
|
| 00:02:55 | >> You think that--
>> like maybe you should be
sober too.
|
| 00:02:59 | >> You think you're all better
..
|
| 00:03:01 | >> No, I don't think I'm all
better, lukas, but I've made a
commitment to working on it.
|
| 00:03:06 | >> This isn't about me now.
|
| 00:03:09 | Are you crying, baby?
|
| 00:03:12 | >> [sniffles]
Yeah, because it's really
frustrating to be in the
POSITION I'M IN AND [sniffles]
Be working hard toward
something.
|
| 00:03:20 | And, you know what?
|
| 00:03:21 | If you're not willing to, um, be
supportive, then that's fine.
|
| 00:03:26 | That's your deal, lukas.
|
| 00:03:28 | >> I'm just a little--
a little teed off, you know?
|
| 00:03:32 | Let me call you back.
|
| 00:03:33 | >> Okay.
|
| 00:03:36 | [busy signal]
>> How are you?
|
| 00:03:46 | >> My husband decided that it's,
like, my issues and that he only
drinks with me, and that I've
been, like, brainwashed away
from him.
|
| 00:03:57 | >> He said that?
|
| 00:04:00 | Oh, no.
|
| 00:04:01 | So he thinks you're different.
|
| 00:04:02 | Well, 'cause you are a little
different.
|
| 00:04:04 | >> Yeah.
|
| 00:04:05 | >> That's the point.
|
| 00:04:05 | >> But he's like, "well, like,
she signed up for this,
I didn't," you know?
|
| 00:04:08 | >> Yeah.
|
| 00:04:10 | Which is true.
|
| 00:04:11 | >> He's right.
|
| 00:04:12 | >> He is right.
|
| 00:04:13 | >> But the reality is he is an
integral party of my life.
|
| 00:04:18 | ..be
well, I need to address those
issues.
|
| 00:04:24 | >> Right, so it's better to
change together, then.
|
| 00:04:26 | 'Cause if you don't, then it's
kind of detrimental to the
relationship.
|
| 00:04:31 | >> The end of it.
|
| 00:04:32 | You know what I mean?
|
| 00:04:33 | >> Yeah.
|
| 00:04:36 | ..
|
| 00:04:37 | >> Kendra has admitted now that
she's an alcoholic, and realized
that in order to deal with it,
she can't be around alcohol.
|
| 00:04:44 | This is gonna require some
sacrifice on her husband lukas's
part, and it's understandably
taken him a little by surprise.
|
| 00:04:50 | I asked him to come to the prc
for a session with kendra in the
hope that we can convince him
how crucial his support is to
her recovery.
|
| 00:05:00 | >> Hello.
|
| 00:05:00 | >> Hello.
|
| 00:05:01 | >> What's the matter?
|
| 00:05:02 | >> Nothin'.
|
| 00:05:03 | >> You all right?
|
| 00:05:07 | >> [sniffles]
>> You look like you're on the
verge of tears.
|
| 00:05:14 | ..
|
| 00:05:16 | ..
|
| 00:05:17 | [sniffles]
He basically just told me that
these are all my problems and i
..
|
| 00:05:23 | [sniffles]
>> You know, when one person
starts to get healthier,
everybody else reacts.
|
| 00:05:30 | When you start getting
healthier, you're not the sick
one anymore, so it forces
everybody else to look at
themself.
|
| 00:05:36 | >> Yeah.
|
| 00:05:37 | >> Which, as you know, is
really, really challenging,
really, really hard to do.
|
| 00:05:40 | >> Mm-hmm.
|
| 00:05:41 | >> So, usually, there's a
reaction at first, you know?
|
| 00:05:43 | And I kind of have a feeling
that's what this is.
|
| 00:05:46 | >> Give him a chance, okay?
|
| 00:05:48 | >> Yeah.
|
| 00:05:48 | >> All right, let's bring him
in.
|
| 00:05:51 | Come have a seat.
|
| 00:05:52 | >> How are you guys?
|
| 00:05:53 | >> We're good. how are you?
|
| 00:05:54 | >> Hi.
|
| 00:05:55 | >> Hello.
|
| 00:05:58 | ..where should we start
this?
|
| 00:06:05 | Kendra had expressed some
concerns that perhaps you
weren't aware of where she was
at or that you were feeling
uncomfortable about the kinds of
things she was starting to say
now as a result of the changes
she's going through in
treatment.
|
| 00:06:18 | Can you speak to that a little
bit?
|
| 00:06:20 | >> Uh, well, I didn't, you know,
I didn't know she was going into
all this to, like, kind of move
farther away from me.
|
| 00:06:29 | >> I don't want to use--i
really don't want you to leave
this feeling like your
relationship is threatened,
'cause that is not the goal
here.
|
| 00:06:34 | The goal is to move you both
along in a healthy way.
|
| 00:06:36 | >> Yep.
|
| 00:06:37 | >> And you should know this is
the way it always is.
|
| 00:06:39 | This is a routine experience of
couples when somebody's in
treatment.
|
| 00:06:43 | What you're feeling is
completely normal.
|
| 00:06:45 | >> And that's what I want to
understand.
|
| 00:06:47 | Like, I want, when she gets out,
to--i want to know the language
and, like, the steps and so
forth.
|
| 00:06:52 | How to make us better.
|
| 00:06:54 | ..it's not about me, you
know?
|
| 00:06:56 | >> Well, it's about each of you
individually and you guys as a
couple.
|
| 00:07:00 | >> Whenever any addiction is
treated, there's always a big
change in one person, and the
other person--and so you--
in a relationship, you kind of
fit like a lock and key.
|
| 00:07:08 | And all of a sudden, the key's
changing.
|
| 00:07:10 | It's like, "well, wait a minute.
|
| 00:07:11 | That doesn't fit the way it used
"
well, the lock has to change
too, so they start fitting
together again.
|
| 00:07:16 | So as you move along, you come
together repeatedly in the
growth.
|
| 00:07:19 | Otherwise, one's down here and
one's up here, going, "hey,
"
so one of two things happen.
|
| 00:07:23 | Either you pull the key back
down where they were and nothing
changes, or they stay apart.
|
| 00:07:30 | And neither do you want.
|
| 00:07:32 | You want to come along for the
ride.
|
| 00:07:33 | >> Absolutely, absolutely.
|
| 00:07:34 | And I'm totally, absolutely,
100%, 110%, willing to do
whatever my wife feels is right.
|
| 00:07:42 | >> Kendra.
|
| 00:07:45 | What's going on?
|
| 00:07:48 | ..
|
| 00:07:51 | It's not about knowing the
language.
|
| 00:07:54 | >> It's about doing the work.
|
| 00:07:55 | It's about doing the work.
|
| 00:07:56 | You have to do work too.
|
| 00:07:57 | Same work she's done, you gotta
do.
|
| 00:07:59 | >> I-i'm totally down for that.
|
| 00:08:00 | >> I hear him say he's ready to
do some work.
|
| 00:08:03 | >> Yeah.
|
| 00:08:04 | >> I'm here.
|
| 00:08:06 | I'm totally here, you know?
|
| 00:08:09 | I'm not half here, I'm here.
|
| 00:08:14 | >> Kendra is now dealing with
two addictions, and if she's
going to have any chance of
success, she desperately needs
the aftercare program.
|
| 00:08:21 | I'm afraid she's feeling that,
somehow, participating in the
program would jeopardize her
marriage.
|
| 00:08:26 | I hope lukas can convince her
otherwise, because if kendra
chooses not to participate, i
really fear for her recovery.
|
| 00:08:34 | >> I love you.
|
| 00:08:38 | >> So what's your plan when you
get out here?
|
| 00:08:41 | What are you thinking?
|
| 00:08:42 | >> I think it's just gonna be
easier for me to stay on a
strict, straight program, you
know, to try to go right into a
..
|
| 00:08:49 | >> I can't even trust my gut.
|
| 00:08:51 | I just don't know.
|
| 00:08:51 | That's how bad it is.
|
| 00:08:53 | LIKE, [sighs].
|
| 00:08:54 | ..jumping
OUT OF MY [bleep] SKIN JUST--
I need to just mellow, get
mellow at my house and just kind
of take it all in, 'cause it's
just--there's so much.
|
| 00:09:04 | >> Yeah.
|
| 00:09:05 | >> And, like, my head's
spinning.
|
| 00:09:08 | I'M JUST [bleep] WHFFT!
|
| 00:09:12 | [sighs]
>> Phil is really on the fence
about the aftercare program,
and he's worried about leaving
rehab in general.
|
| 00:09:19 | Since jill will be running the
aftercare program, I asked her
to meet with him to discuss some
of his concerns about the
future.
|
| 00:09:26 | >> I'm frightened to leave here.
|
| 00:09:27 | >> What's going on?
|
| 00:09:28 | >> I-i-i identified as a sex
..sure
if I was a sex and love addict.
|
| 00:09:36 | >> Mm-hmm.
|
| 00:09:36 | >> And then I kind of think
about my, um, past a little bit,
and my relationships, and I was
definitely a love addict.
|
| 00:09:45 | You know, and that's where I get
confused with the intimacy
issues as well.
|
| 00:09:48 | Like, are my intimate, like--
see, I 'cause I think snuggling
is intimate, and sleeping with
..
|
| 00:09:54 | >> Sure.
|
| 00:09:54 | >> But other people think that
getting to know a person inside
is intimate, right?
|
| 00:09:58 | Is that where I'm missing--
I mean, like, where's the--
>> well, there's physical
intimacy and being able to be
close, you know, and there's
emotional intimacy, where i
start layer by layer showing you
who I really am.
|
| 00:10:10 | That's true intimacy.
|
| 00:10:12 | >> Mm-hmm.
|
| 00:10:13 | >> When you're in your
addiction, love and/or sex
addiction, you're only gonna be
bringing in and attracting
people that are operating at
that same frequency as you.
|
| 00:10:23 | Right?
|
| 00:10:24 | >> Yeah. no, definitely.
|
| 00:10:25 | >> So I think you should stay
single for at least six months.
|
| 00:10:29 | >> I agree, I know I have to
stay single for six months, but
I'm frightened to leave here--
>> normally, I make people do a
year.
|
| 00:10:36 | >> There's no way.
|
| 00:10:37 | >> I know, that's why i--
>> are you talking about sex?
|
| 00:10:40 | >> Sex, dating.
|
| 00:10:41 | >> How can I not have sex for
six months?
|
| 00:10:43 | No, seriously.
|
| 00:10:45 | >> What's the biggest fear?
|
| 00:10:46 | >> [scoffs]
>> Masturbation will be
reintroduced, but sex with
another human being will be off
the table.
|
| 00:10:52 | >> IT'S GONNA MAKE ME [bleep]
Crazy, that if I just
masturbate and masturbate and
masturbate, and I have no human
touch, it's gonna--
the fact that we can't even--
DO YOU KNOW HOW [bleep] BAD I
Need to spoon right now?
|
| 00:11:01 | Like, I'm jump--i'd rather spoon
THAN HAVE SEX ANY [bleep] DAY
Right now.
|
| 00:11:05 | Look at my face.
|
| 00:11:06 | I AM [bleep] BROKEN FROM THIS
[bleep].
|
| 00:11:08 | This is not like what you think
it's gonna be.
|
| 00:11:15 | >> Welcome to your graduation
ceremony, where we take this
opportunity to acknowledge this
group.
|
| 00:11:21 | >> You've helped me to see a lot
further than I could have ever
hoped.
|
| 00:11:26 | >> I bet it feels strange to
hear people talking about
strength.
|
| 00:11:30 | You are actually allowing people
to see that now.
|
| 00:11:33 | >> So at this point, I'd like
the treatment staff to bring in
a symbol of peace, and a very
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|
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|
| 00:16:06 | [knocking]
>> Gentlemen, it's 7:00.
|
| 00:16:12 | It's the last morning.
|
| 00:16:13 | Get up.
|
| 00:16:15 | [laughing]
Look at you gents.
|
| 00:16:17 | That's what you look like first
thing in the morning.
|
| 00:16:19 | That's what I missed out on
every morning.
|
| 00:16:21 | >> Nice.
|
| 00:16:23 | >> [grunting]
Uncle phil!
|
| 00:16:26 | >> I CAN'T [bleep] WAIT TO GET
Out of here.
|
| 00:16:28 | I really can't.
|
| 00:16:29 | So far, I don't know about
..
|
| 00:16:33 | Jill gave me a death sentence
with six months of celibacy.
|
| 00:16:37 | I mean, that, to me, is like,
god, I can't even think about
that.
|
| 00:16:40 | It's killing me, you know?
|
| 00:16:42 | It's put me in a weird mood.
|
| 00:16:44 | >> All right, guys!
|
| 00:16:45 | We need to be ready.
|
| 00:16:47 | Graduation time.
|
| 00:16:50 | >> I am very nervous about
graduation.
|
| 00:16:53 | Um, I'm really nervous to
just jump back into life.
|
| 00:16:58 | Um, for the past eight years
I've been penny flame from the
moment I wake up to the moment i
go to sleep.
|
| 00:17:04 | So I really am absolutely
terrified, mostly because i
don't know what's gonna happen.
|
| 00:17:09 | >> Okay, we're gonna have to
move as a group, okay?
|
| 00:17:13 | This is it, it's the last time
you have to listen to what i
have to say.
|
| 00:17:17 | >> I'm just like--i'm just
having, like, a lot of anxiety.
|
| 00:17:20 | Like I just am really stressed,
and, like, the more I think
about the more I'm stressed,
then the more stressed I get.
|
| 00:17:26 | Of course, I want to be
committed to aftercare, but I'm
a little--i'm a little unsure,
because nobody else here is,
like, in a relationship right
now, so I don't really have
anyone that, like, relates to
what I'm going through right
now.
|
| 00:17:40 | >> Okay.
|
| 00:17:41 | [Carolina Liar's
Show What I'm Looking For]
♪ ♪
|
| 00:17:49 | >> ♪ wait, I'm wrong ♪
|
| 00:17:53 | ♪ should've done better ♪
|
| 00:17:55 | ♪ than this ♪
|
| 00:17:58 | ♪ please, I'll be strong ♪
|
| 00:18:02 | ♪ I'm finding it hard ♪
|
| 00:18:04 | ♪ to resist ♪
|
| 00:18:05 | >> we have finally reached the
graduation ceremony.
|
| 00:18:08 | I am incredibly proud of these
seven courageous patients.
|
| 00:18:12 | Today is their chance to be
acknowledged for their work and
to recognize the work of their
peers.
|
| 00:18:17 | >> ♪ Oh, lord, I've been ♪
|
| 00:18:19 | ♪ waiting for you ♪
|
| 00:18:22 | >> welcome, guys.
|
| 00:18:23 | Welcome to your graduation
ceremony, where we take this
opportunity to acknowledge this
group who have worked so hard
for the last three weeks.
|
| 00:18:32 | The way today is gonna work is
each one of you will come up
here and take a moment to really
reflect upon the amount of
progress you've made and give
you an opportunity to give each
other final parting thoughts.
|
| 00:18:43 | So, jenny, if you'd begin the
process.
|
| 00:18:55 | >> Jenny, I never expected to
meet anybody who would touch me
as deeply as you have in the
last few weeks.
|
| 00:19:05 | You have been my best friend
throughout this adventure.
|
| 00:19:09 | I do believe in miracles.
|
| 00:19:11 | And you're the embodiment of
every miracle that I would ever
hope to see in another person.
|
| 00:19:17 | >> Thank you.
|
| 00:19:22 | >> Um, you know, it's hard to
express when somebody's gone
through so much change and
worked so hard.
|
| 00:19:28 | We'd like to say on behalf of
the treatment team, thank you
for sharing the beautiful woman
that jenny is.
|
| 00:19:33 | Sexual addiction, for the
most part, is an intimacy
problem.
|
| 00:19:36 | >> OH, YEAH. [laughs]
>> What are you thinking?
|
| 00:19:39 | >> Wall.
|
| 00:19:40 | >> Yeah.
|
| 00:19:41 | What's on the other side of
the wall?
|
| 00:19:44 | >> Um, hopefully a caring,
sensitive person.
|
| 00:19:47 | Who could have real, like,
meaningful relationships.
|
| 00:19:50 | >> That's what you want?
|
| 00:19:51 | >> Yeah.
|
| 00:19:53 | >> You've done an amazing amount
so far.
|
| 00:19:55 | Keep it going.
|
| 00:19:56 | And we're here for you.
|
| 00:19:57 | >> Thank you.
|
| 00:19:59 | ..
|
| 00:20:00 | When I came in here, I met these
seven strangers, and now I'm
leaving with some really
beautiful friends.
|
| 00:20:10 | I'm grateful for every, single
one of you.
|
| 00:20:12 | This has been the most amazing
experience of my life.
|
| 00:20:17 | Thank you.
|
| 00:20:18 | [applause]
..
|
| 00:20:32 | I think that you're amazing.
|
| 00:20:35 | You're honest.
|
| 00:20:36 | You didn't pretend to be
anything that you're not.
|
| 00:20:39 | >> I was just thinking about
family members taking advantage
of me.
|
| 00:20:44 | And, uh, not in just sexual
ways, but also in, uh, terribly
violent situations.
|
| 00:20:50 | >> I'm there with you.
|
| 00:20:50 | Just so you know.
|
| 00:20:51 | >> How old were you when you
lost faith in your family?
|
| 00:20:55 | ..i think the moment--
like two.
|
| 00:20:57 | >> Two?
|
| 00:20:58 | >> And I think everybody here
just looks up to you.
|
| 00:21:03 | I know that I do.
|
| 00:21:05 | I love you.
|
| 00:21:06 | >> I love you too.
|
| 00:21:08 | ..i don't know if
you're aware how powerful some
of the experiences I had with
you were.
|
| 00:21:14 | They were like breathtaking.
|
| 00:21:17 | >> He would beat me, and then
..
|
| 00:21:21 | >> He'd initiate the sex thing
then?
|
| 00:21:23 | >> Yeah.
|
| 00:21:24 | >> Whew.
|
| 00:21:25 | >> I felt utterly powerless.
|
| 00:21:28 | 'Cause I was.
|
| 00:21:29 | >> Yeah.
|
| 00:21:32 | >> [sobbing]
>> Thank you for sharing
humanity, and allowing us to be
in that space with you.
|
| 00:21:38 | I was deeply moved by a number
of things, and so, for that,
I thank you.
|
| 00:21:46 | >> I had no expectations when i
came to this.
|
| 00:21:51 | And I got a lot.
|
| 00:21:53 | I got to tell the truth, after
many years of totally being
disabled from the truth.
|
| 00:22:00 | You know, we are as sick as our
secrets.
|
| 00:22:03 | AND, UH, I HAD A LOT OF [bleep]
Secrets.
|
| 00:22:06 | But most of all, I sat with each
and every one of you and felt i
couldn't have done any of this
without you being there.
|
| 00:22:15 | I can't thank you enough, all of
you.
|
| 00:22:17 | [applause]
..
|
| 00:22:33 | I think that your change here
has been the most subtle
outwardly, but I think inwardly,
like, so dramatic.
|
| 00:22:40 | I think that you're incredible.
|
| 00:22:42 | You've shown yourself throughout
this whole time to be dignified,
strong, and the beautiful person
that you are.
|
| 00:22:49 | I'm so happy that I got to know
you.
|
| 00:22:53 | >> Ahh.
|
| 00:22:55 | >> Nicole, I think you have had
a lot of change.
|
| 00:22:57 | >> I'm in a relationship right
now.
|
| 00:22:59 | He does talk to me about our
future and stuff like that, and
no guy's ever done that before.
|
| 00:23:05 | >> Which is what you want,
right?
|
| 00:23:07 | >> Yeah.
|
| 00:23:07 | I mean, I just want to feel like
..
|
| 00:23:10 | >> Absolutely you're worthy.
|
| 00:23:14 | >> I know groups are hard for
you.
|
| 00:23:16 | A lot of your work is in
individual.
|
| 00:23:17 | I hope you'll continue that.
|
| 00:23:19 | Those individual experiences are
very, very powerful.
|
| 00:23:22 | ..okay?
|
| 00:23:23 | >> Okay.
|
| 00:23:25 | [chuckles and sniffles]
Um, it was really hard for
me, 'cause I been living on my
own since I was 16 years old.
|
| 00:23:32 | And I never had a roommate in my
life.
|
| 00:23:34 | So to all of a sudden inherit
six was really traumatic for me.
|
| 00:23:40 | My life is a revolving door.
|
| 00:23:42 | Like people just keep coming and
going, coming and going.
|
| 00:23:45 | And that's, you know, so it's
like I'm actually really used to
abandonment.
|
| 00:23:50 | I'M PRETTY [bleep], LIKE, USED
To it.
|
| 00:23:52 | Um, but it turned out to be
really a beautiful experience.
|
| 00:23:56 | So thank you all for, um,
showing me what it's like to
have a family.
|
| 00:24:01 | ..um, not abandoning me.
|
| 00:24:04 | Thank you.
|
| 00:24:06 | [applause]
>> The courage it took to come
here.
|
| 00:24:20 | And to say, "you know, I may
"
>> now's the point when you tell
me what your aftercare plans
are.
|
| 00:24:29 | Without meetings, without the
regular support, without ongoing
..
|
| 00:24:34 | Be careful.
|
| 00:27:41 | >> Oh, boy.
|
| 00:27:43 | [laughter]
Can I get a big tissue, like?
|
| 00:27:49 | >> Oh, james.
|
| 00:27:53 | You're a dope kid.
|
| 00:27:55 | You are an inspiration to all
young men out there.
|
| 00:28:00 | >> What are you feeling?
|
| 00:28:01 | >> There's tears in your eyes.
|
| 00:28:03 | >> I just feel everybody's
stress.
|
| 00:28:05 | Everybody's so different here.
|
| 00:28:07 | We can all try to relate,
but we can't.
|
| 00:28:10 | We're all here for ourselves,
and we gotta remember that,
that let's fix ourselves first
and then we can move on.
|
| 00:28:18 | >> You coming here and
addressing that, you know,
you want to change is really
beautiful.
|
| 00:28:27 | Thank you.
|
| 00:28:33 | >> Well, sir, I wanted to
acknowledge how difficult it is
as a young man to do what you've
done.
|
| 00:28:41 | >> You know, everything that i
do, I'm always constantly
thinking about, you know, what's
next or--
>> is it masturbation?
|
| 00:28:48 | >> Yeah, I mean, it's keeping me
locked up in my house pretty
much, not letting me go check
the waves, not letting me just
kind of live a normal life.
|
| 00:28:57 | >> I've treated a lot of young
men, and very few have embraced
change the way you have.
|
| 00:29:02 | Thank you.
|
| 00:29:05 | >> Jeez, you guys.
|
| 00:29:06 | It's like a family now.
|
| 00:29:08 | I've grown to love all you guys
so much.
|
| 00:29:11 | I would have never been able
to do this without you guys.
|
| 00:29:13 | I would have ran away the first
day probably.
|
| 00:29:17 | I was just going through so much
stuff.
|
| 00:29:20 | You know, I love you guys all
so much, and just a great
blessing, and I thank you
very much.
|
| 00:29:26 | [applause]
>> Amber.
|
| 00:29:40 | You gave me the most, and
without really knowing it.
|
| 00:29:44 | It was you that day that threw
the eggs at the wall, and I will
never ever forget as long as
I live.
|
| 00:29:50 | You look like an angel.
|
| 00:29:53 | >> This is for the guys who
[bleep] ME ONE [bleep] TIME.
|
| 00:29:57 | you don't even come
back for more?
|
| 00:30:01 | I had to prove everything to
the world.
|
| 00:30:03 | It was exhausting and lonely.
|
| 00:30:05 | >> And what do you want to tell
the world?
|
| 00:30:08 | >> That I'm good enough.
|
| 00:30:10 | >> I saw you come alive,
and come alive as the vibrant,
strong, empowered woman I know
you are.
|
| 00:30:17 | The woman that will make great
decisions for the rest of your
life.
|
| 00:30:22 | >> Ah.
|
| 00:30:24 | >> I bet it feels strange to
hear people talking about
strength, right?
|
| 00:30:28 | >> Very.
|
| 00:30:29 | >> You are an extremely
powerful, strong woman.
|
| 00:30:33 | And you're actually allowing
people to see that now.
|
| 00:30:35 | It's probably something that
used to scare you.
|
| 00:30:37 | But now you can see it is part
of who amber is.
|
| 00:30:40 | You can own that strength.
|
| 00:30:41 | So congratulations.
|
| 00:30:42 | >> Thank you.
|
| 00:30:44 | Oh, boy.
|
| 00:30:47 | Yeah, I was here a short while
..detoxing.
|
| 00:30:51 | For that whole time I was sober,
I was just--i was still stuck
on some unavailable guy, and
that's not sobriety.
|
| 00:31:01 | But I think I got a really good
shot at it now.
|
| 00:31:07 | And I thank you so much, really.
|
| 00:31:09 | Thank you all, thank you.
|
| 00:31:11 | [applause]
>> Oh, boy.
|
| 00:31:17 | >> Ooh, phil.
|
| 00:31:21 | >> Hi.
|
| 00:31:22 | Well, a couple things.
|
| 00:31:24 | >> Okay.
|
| 00:31:25 | [laughter]
>> I think you're the whole
package, everything.
|
| 00:31:31 | You got the exterior.
|
| 00:31:32 | You're funny, you're charming,
and you're courageous.
|
| 00:31:35 | The courage it took to come
here and to say, "you know,
"
>> when amber says, "why didn't
"
that's me.
|
| 00:31:46 | That's what I do.
|
| 00:31:48 | How many people like her are
out there 'cause of me, you
know?
|
| 00:31:51 | >> Mm-hmm, mm-hmm.
|
| 00:31:53 | >> And I learned that men do
feel.
|
| 00:31:56 | Because I thought that they were
heartless.
|
| 00:31:58 | Gosh, you just affected me
a lot.
|
| 00:32:01 | [mouths words]
>> Nice work.
|
| 00:32:06 | >> Thank you.
|
| 00:32:07 | >> You were the first to really
jump on in.
|
| 00:32:10 | And we all thank you for that.
|
| 00:32:11 | It opened up the door to
everyone being open emotionally,
and that takes courage.
|
| 00:32:16 | I'm not worried about you.
|
| 00:32:18 | Congratulations.
|
| 00:32:20 | ..
|
| 00:32:24 | I'm gonna finally be a grown-up.
|
| 00:32:28 | And I'm honored that all of you
have come to me and helped me,
and I've been able to help you.
|
| 00:32:33 | And for that, I'm truly
grateful.
|
| 00:32:35 | It's a miracle.
|
| 00:32:36 | Thank you, guys.
|
| 00:32:37 | I love you all, I really do.
|
| 00:32:38 | [applause]
>> Kendra jade rossi.
|
| 00:32:49 | I want to say that you're an
amazing person, and I know it
was really hard for you to,
like, talk about what you did
in group.
|
| 00:32:58 | >> You don't leave your bed?
|
| 00:32:59 | >> No.
|
| 00:33:00 | >> Could you do that if your
husband wasn't home?
|
| 00:33:03 | >> He's--we're always together.
|
| 00:33:05 | >> Is he your drug?
|
| 00:33:06 | >> No.
|
| 00:33:07 | Why are you smiling?
|
| 00:33:09 | >> He's a little bit of your
drug.
|
| 00:33:12 | >> I really hope that you get
out of bed every day.
|
| 00:33:15 | You know, just call someone and
go have lunch, or call me, or,
you know, just do something,
but not isolate, you know?
|
| 00:33:22 | 'Cause the world is just missing
one less beautiful person out
there when you isolate and you
stay in your room all day.
|
| 00:33:28 | I wish you well.
|
| 00:33:29 | >> [mouths words]
>> Once again, courage and
honesty.
|
| 00:33:35 | Really very courageous.
|
| 00:33:36 | It's been a real honor and
a pleasure and a privilege.
|
| 00:33:39 | Keep going.
|
| 00:33:41 | >> Okay.
|
| 00:33:42 | My new family.
|
| 00:33:44 | It's so hard for me today.
|
| 00:33:47 | But the truth of the matter
is I don't want to leave you
guys today or any other day.
|
| 00:33:50 | I hope that you're all always
in my life.
|
| 00:33:54 | I want to thank you guys
especially because you really
have absolutely changed my life,
and I thank you for it.
|
| 00:34:02 | [applause]
>> I've listened to a lot of
ceremonies, and that was
probably universally the most
moving testimonials I've ever
heard.
|
| 00:34:17 | And I'm not surprised.
|
| 00:34:18 | It's a credit to the work you've
all done.
|
| 00:34:21 | And now's the point when you
tell me what your aftercare
plans are.
|
| 00:34:24 | We've recommended an intensive
outpatient program.
|
| 00:34:26 | So we're gonna go down the line.
|
| 00:34:27 | You're gonna tell me what your
plans are.
|
| 00:34:29 | Jenny.
|
| 00:34:35 | >> Do I have time for it?
|
| 00:34:37 | >> It's a lot of time.
|
| 00:34:38 | It's a lot of commitment.
|
| 00:34:39 | >> I have to work.
|
| 00:34:39 | I have stuff to do.
|
| 00:34:40 | >> Your sobriety needs to come
first.
|
| 00:38:22 | >> Now's the point when you
tell me what your aftercare
plans are.
|
| 00:38:24 | We've recommended an intensive
outpatient program.
|
| 00:38:26 | So we're gonna go down the line.
|
| 00:38:28 | You're gonna tell me what your
plans are.
|
| 00:38:30 | Jenny.
|
| 00:38:31 | drew, I'm getting a date,
and I'm going straight to the
bar.
|
| 00:38:35 | [laughter]
I'm not.
|
| 00:38:39 | I'm gonna do all of the
aftercare.
|
| 00:38:42 | >> Wonderful, excellent.
|
| 00:38:44 | We'll see you on monday.
|
| 00:38:47 | Duncan.
|
| 00:38:48 | >> Well, I thought long and hard
about it, dr. drew.
|
| 00:38:52 | And I thought that I would do
the aftercare plan.
|
| 00:38:56 | [applause]
>> Nicole, plan?
|
| 00:39:03 | ..
|
| 00:39:07 | Maybe in the future I do want
to do the aftercare plan.
|
| 00:39:11 | >> So you're not ready for an
intensive program now?
|
| 00:39:13 | >> No.
|
| 00:39:15 | >> Are you willing to do any
individual therapy?
|
| 00:39:17 | >> Yes.
|
| 00:39:17 | >> Okay, so we'll give you
some referrals for that.
|
| 00:39:20 | Obviously not as good a plan
as an intensive program.
|
| 00:39:23 | But you've still got the full
support of us and your new
family.
|
| 00:39:26 | >> Okay.
|
| 00:39:26 | >> So we wish you the best.
|
| 00:39:28 | >> Okay.
|
| 00:39:29 | >> James.
|
| 00:39:31 | >> DR. DREW. [chuckles]
Um, gosh, I would love to,
but I'm getting ready to go on
tour for the next eight months.
|
| 00:39:38 | And, you know, my career is
something that's really gonna
help me, and I think that it's
gonna be my rehab.
|
| 00:39:43 | And it's gonna be the next step
in my life.
|
| 00:39:46 | And you guys have opened the
doors.
|
| 00:39:49 | >> Be careful.
|
| 00:39:51 | It's slippery out there without
meetings, without the regular
support, without ongoing work.
|
| 00:39:56 | If you have trouble, come on
back.
|
| 00:39:58 | Door is always open, okay?
|
| 00:39:59 | >> I'll definitely keep in
touch.
|
| 00:40:00 | >> All right.
|
| 00:40:01 | >> I'll call you.
|
| 00:40:02 | >> Good luck.
|
| 00:40:06 | Amber, what do you think?
|
| 00:40:08 | >> I get frustrated sometimes
and pessimistic 'cause I feel
like I have to do all this
therapy just to live a normal
life.
|
| 00:40:16 | But I also realize that if i
don't get somewhat healthy
I'll have no chance at all.
|
| 00:40:23 | So I would like to try it.
|
| 00:40:25 | >> The intensive program?
|
| 00:40:26 | >> The intensive program.
|
| 00:40:27 | >> Great, excellent, good.
|
| 00:40:32 | Phil.
|
| 00:40:34 | >> I know how hard going through
this process was for me, you
know?
|
| 00:40:38 | I had no idea what I was, you
know, was thinking.
|
| 00:40:41 | And then I took a deep, hard,
look at myself, and I absolutely
need it.
|
| 00:40:46 | Period.
|
| 00:40:47 | >> All in.
|
| 00:40:48 | >> Yes.
|
| 00:40:48 | >> Fantastic.
|
| 00:40:53 | Kendra, what do you think?
|
| 00:40:55 | >> I thought about it long and
hard today.
|
| 00:40:59 | Do I need it?
|
| 00:41:01 | Do I have time for it?
|
| 00:41:02 | >> It's a lot of time.
|
| 00:41:03 | It's a lot of commitment.
|
| 00:41:04 | >> I have to work.
|
| 00:41:05 | I have stuff to do.
|
| 00:41:06 | >> Your sobriety needs to come
first.
|
| 00:41:16 | >> The answer is yes.
|
| 00:41:17 | I'm absolutely committed to my
recovery.
|
| 00:41:19 | [applause]
>> So at this point I'd like
the treatment staff to bring in
a symbol that we thought would
be appropriate.
|
| 00:41:31 | Each of you will hold in these
baskets a symbol of peace, love,
forgiveness, and a very secret
ingredient.
|
| 00:41:39 | >> Ohh! aah! oh!
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| 00:45:35 | >> We wanted to create a moment
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you've made and really
acknowledge the work you've
done.
|
| 00:45:41 | So at this point I'd like the
treatment staff to bring in
a symbol that we thought would
be appropriate.
|
| 00:45:45 | Each of you will hold--
>> thank you, sharky.
|
| 00:45:48 | In each of these baskets
is a white dove--
historically a symbol of peace,
love, forgiveness, and a very
secret ingredient, faith.
|
| 00:46:00 | It's been a pleasure,
a privilege, an honor.
|
| 00:46:02 | I cannot express how pleased i
am to have been a part of this.
|
| 00:46:05 | And I thank you for that.
|
| 00:46:06 | Congratulations.
|
| 00:46:07 | Thank you.
|
| 00:46:08 | On the count of three, let's
release these symbols to
eternity.
|
| 00:46:14 | ..two...three.
|
| 00:46:18 | Here we go.
|
| 00:46:20 | >> Oh!
|
| 00:46:21 | >> Ha!
|
| 00:46:21 | >> Ahh!
|
| 00:46:30 | >> There we go.
|
| 00:46:34 | >> Fly, little one.
|
| 00:46:35 | Fly.
|
| 00:46:39 | >> Okay, I love you.
|
| 00:46:40 | >> I love you too.
|
| 00:46:42 | >> I love you.
|
| 00:46:44 | >> Hello, darling.
|
| 00:46:49 | >> This has been an amazing
journey.
|
| 00:46:52 | >> I don't want to go.
|
| 00:46:55 | >> Just three weeks ago,
eight people entered the
pasadena recovery center to seek
treatment for their sex and
love addictions.
|
| 00:47:02 | >> How in god's name am I going
to go 21 days without having
sex?
|
| 00:47:11 | >> This addiction is so
shame-evoking that simply coming
forward to get help was
an incredible act of courage.
|
| 00:47:17 | >> This is harder than any other
addiction, I would say.
|
| 00:47:22 | >> I've been depressed.
|
| 00:47:22 | I've wanted to kill myself.
|
| 00:47:24 | I'm the loneliest person on the
[bleep] PLANET.
|
| 00:47:26 | >> They have faced trauma that
they'd buried for a lifetime.
|
| 00:47:30 | >> I was molested.
|
| 00:47:32 | It's my first childhood
memories.
|
| 00:47:34 | >> What happened?
|
| 00:47:37 | I lost everything.
|
| 00:47:40 | >> And they realized for the
first time that they are not
alone.
|
| 00:47:44 | >> Nothing you ever do will
let me down.
|
| 00:47:47 | >> It has been an incredibly
painful journey.
|
| 00:47:50 | >> I had flashbacks of being
raped.
|
| 00:47:53 | >> Although not everyone made it
to the end.
|
| 00:47:55 | This is not working.
|
| 00:47:56 | >> You know what, you're
A [bleep] DOCTOR, DREW.
|
| 00:47:59 | I'M PACKED AND [bleep] READY.
|
| 00:48:03 | >> I know that they all have
been changed by their time here.
|
| 00:48:06 | >> ♪ I'm coming to terms ♪
|
| 00:48:09 | ♪ I'm starting to learn ♪
|
| 00:48:12 | ♪ this ain't all ♪
|
| 00:48:13 | ♪ it's cracked up to be ♪
|
| 00:48:16 | ♪ 'cause I'm using you ♪
|
| 00:48:19 | ♪ you're using me ♪
|
| 00:48:22 | ♪ it's never as easy ♪
|
| 00:48:24 | ♪ as we believe ♪
|
| 00:48:28 | [laughter]
♪ ♪
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| 00:48:35 | >> let's all hug.
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| 00:48:37 | Ohh.
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| 00:48:39 | >> Some of these patients will
stumble on the path to recovery.
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| 00:48:42 | But addiction is a lifelong
battle, a battle that I know
ultimately they can win.
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| 00:48:58 | >> ♪ Show me ♪
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| 00:48:59 | ♪ what I'm looking for ♪
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| 00:49:02 | ♪ show me what I'm looking ♪
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| 00:49:41 | >> so after the elimination,
everyone is safe, but i
realized, from here on out, i
am on my own.
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| 00:49:47 | I can't trust anyone anymore.
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| 00:49:51 | >> As soon as dan leaves to take
out the trash, dalen comes up to
me, kind of talking about the
elimination.
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| 00:49:56 | >> Was I being unloyal?
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| 00:50:01 | >> I don't think so.
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| 00:50:02 | >> For voting dan?
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| 00:50:05 | >> You should have threw his ass
under the bus some more.
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| 00:50:07 | >> Dan is the oddball out right
now, and I have to stick with
who I know has my back, and
they're gonna vote for dan, so i
need to ride with 'em.
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| 00:50:15 | >> We all went in there a day
ago and said he should not be
here.
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| 00:50:20 | Me and miss ebony have an
alliance.
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| 00:50:22 | No matter what, we should be in
the final two.
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| 00:50:24 | We've brought dalen along with
us to say, "hey, we'll get you
to the final three.
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| 00:50:28 | After that, you speak to
"
>> and even if I did not have a
reason to vote dan up, it's
strategy.
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| 00:50:39 | And I mean, why do I have to
call you "poprah"?
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| 00:50:41 | 'Cause you're not a mixture
between puffy and oprah.
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| 00:50:44 | >> The elimination was horrible.
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| 00:50:46 | Dalen is so pissed off at
poprah.
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| 00:50:50 | You have no oprah-esque
qualities.
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| 00:50:52 | >> And no puff qualities.
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| 00:50:54 | THAT IS SOME [bleep] YOU
Fabricating.
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| 00:50:55 | If I got to call you "poprah,"
"
>> [laughs]
>> From now on, that's what you
got to call me.
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| 00:51:02 | >> "No, no, ma'am.
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| 00:51:03 | I'M THESE [bleep] IN YOUR MOUTH.
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| 00:51:04 | When you address me, say these
[bleep] IN YOUR MOUTH.
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| 00:51:07 | "
"EXCUSE ME, MR. [bleep] IN MY
"
[laughter]
>> Anybody home?
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| 00:51:15 | >> And in walks poprah, the fat
spawn of satan.
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| 00:51:21 | [dramatic music]
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I'm tired of seeing her.
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| 00:51:46 | Why won't she just get hit by a
bus?
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| 00:51:48 | >> What's up? how you doing?
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| 00:51:50 | Dalen gives me a look, and i
know exactly what that look
means.
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| 00:51:53 | >> Like, I just wish she would
just go the hell away.
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| 00:51:56 | >> I have a meeting with mr.
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| 00:51:57 | Combs.
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| 00:51:58 | He wants me to really give
him kind of give him my final
assessment on who's who, what's
what.
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| 00:52:03 | >> Poprah says that she's here
to do one-on-ones, because she
is the ears and eyes for mr.
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| 00:52:07 | Combs.
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| 00:52:08 | >> All right, let's get
it poppin' then.
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| 00:52:10 | >> I'm like, "great, get this
[bleep] OVER WITH."
>> You have more ethics than
ivory.
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| 00:52:14 | Ivory got more hustle than you.
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| 00:52:15 | >> Is that experience or hustle?
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| 00:52:16 | >> I think it's hustle.
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| 00:52:18 | >> Okay.
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| 00:52:18 | >> I think it's hustle.
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| 00:52:19 | What scares me a little bit
about ebony is, ebony doesn't
seem to always assert herself.
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| 00:52:24 | Are you too sweet and kind and
ladylike that when you got to
cut a bitch, you won't--you know
what I'm saying?
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| 00:52:29 | >> Well, I went into elimination
and took two out in one round.
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| 00:52:31 | YOU ARE VERY [bleep] SELFISH.
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| 00:52:34 | That's why you do not deserve to
be here.
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| 00:52:36 | I went in there, and I cut a
bitch.
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| 00:52:39 | Poprah says to me that I've got
to step up more and be a leader.
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| 00:52:43 | I am not a competitor to be
slept on.
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| 00:52:45 | >> Now get it.
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| 00:52:46 | >> Okay.
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| 00:52:46 | >> All right.
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| 00:52:47 | >> If you sleep on me, you will
never wake up, honey.
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| 00:52:50 | >> One of the reasons I honestly
think, ivory, we've bumped heads
is because we're so much alike.
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| 00:52:54 | The biggest thing I worry about
with you is being willing to do
almost anything to win, and you
can't do that.
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| 00:53:00 | Even though she is game, she got
so much game that she don't know
when to stop playing.
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| 00:53:04 | I think that you can do
anything that you put your
freaking head to as long as you
keep your integrity.
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| 00:53:09 | >> The biggest compliment that
you can get is when someone says
"i see a lot of you in me," and
at the end of the day, as
everyone said, "who would I like
"
it's ivory.
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| 00:53:19 | >> To get this job, you're gonna
have to show diddy that you are
assertive enough to be able to
delegate, execute, and command
control over a situation when
it's necessary.
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| 00:53:28 | He doesn't give a damn about
playing politics, who likes you,
and all of that.
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| 00:53:31 | >> I'm not gonna fight with
people for pointless reasons.
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| 00:53:33 | I think I can do it in a way
that doesn't attack people.
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| 00:53:35 | >> Sounds like another one of
your freaking speeches, like you
do sound like you're running for
political office.
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| 00:53:40 | Cast your ballot for daniel the
diplomat.
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| 00:53:43 | >> I think I had a centralized
role, but a very effective role,
and I completed everything asked
of me to the utmost ability.
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| 00:53:50 | >> [mimicking marching band
music]
>> I respect what she has to
say, but you don't fight with
somebody who's fighting based on
passion, not on reason.
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| 00:54:00 | >> Hi, mister man.
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| 00:54:02 | >> I'm just gonna keep it real.
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| 00:54:03 | I DON'T LIKE HER, SO [bleep]
Whatever she has to say and
whatever she believes in.
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| 00:54:07 | >> So tell me, dalen, why should
you freaking be here?
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| 00:54:09 | All I see is a cute face and
some nice clothes.
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| 00:54:13 | I mean, what the hell's going on
with you?
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| 00:54:15 | >> Honestly, kim, I really don't
like having conversations with
you.
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| 00:54:21 | >> But there is gonna be a lot
of people you don't like, baby.
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| 00:54:23 | This business isn't about making
friends.
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| 00:54:24 | It's about making money.
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| 00:54:25 | Dalen holds everything in.
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| 00:54:27 | >> Why didn't you say something?
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| 00:54:28 | I seen you not saying nothing.
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| 00:54:29 | Why didn't you say something?
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| 00:54:30 | >> I've seen you put a lot of
time into how you look, how you
dress, and then hide in the
corner like a little bitch,
don't speak up.
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| 00:54:36 | >> See, now, why do you have to
use profanity?
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| 00:54:38 | Why can't you talk like an
adult?
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| 00:54:40 | You're 45, almost 45 years old.
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| 00:54:42 | >> Sweetheart, I'm 41, and guess
what, I did more when I was 25--
>> so talk like an adult.
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| 00:54:46 | But you don't know what I've
done in my life.
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| 00:54:48 | You don't know where I came--
>> well, that's what I'm
asking you to tell me.
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| 00:54:50 | >> You don't know my hustle.
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| 00:54:51 | You don't know my grind.
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| 00:54:51 | >> Well, let's hear it.
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| 00:54:52 | He's so worried about looking
weak that he comes off all tight
and bottled up.
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| 00:54:57 | >> Oh, my god.
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| 00:54:58 | I been working since I was 14
years old doing any and
everything that I could get my
hands on.
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| 00:55:04 | I've started businesses.
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| 00:55:05 | I've studied abroad.
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| 00:55:07 | I got two degrees under my belt
by the age of 23.
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| 00:55:08 | Came home and started a
business.
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| 00:55:10 | You know why I started my
business?
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| 00:55:11 | 'Cause my father got stricken
with cancer, and I came home to
work with my mom and help my
family start a business.
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| 00:55:16 | Everything I've done for my life
has been for somebody else.
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| 00:55:19 | I'm here 'cause I want to do
this for myself.
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| 00:55:20 | SO THAT'S WHAT THE [bleep] I'M
Here for.
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| 00:55:22 | I feel disrespected by you
telling me that I don't grind, i
don't work, when that's all I've
BEEN DOING MY WHOLE [bleep]
Life.
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| 00:55:28 | SO THAT'S THE [bleep] TRUTH.
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| 00:55:32 | >> So why you holding it in,
dalen?
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| 00:55:34 | Why do I have to talk to you
like this to just get you--
>> 'cause it ain't everybody's
business.
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| 00:55:39 | >> But the thing about it is,
don't you realize--
>> YOU GOT [bleep] IN YOUR LIFE
You don't want--
>> yes, my parents died four
months apart when I was 16.
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| 00:55:45 | >> Exactly.
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| 00:55:46 | >> I was on fire when I was five
months old.
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| 00:55:48 | >> Exactly.
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| 00:55:48 | >> People don't know my story.
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| 00:55:49 | >> It is not for everybody to
know.
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| 00:55:51 | >> Guess what, though.
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| 00:55:52 | The story don't have any value
if you don't share it with
somebody so you can empower and
inspire someone else.
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| 00:55:59 | I know it hurts.
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| 00:56:01 | I know it's scary, dalen.
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| 00:56:04 | I feel you.
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| 00:56:08 | >> And honestly, I could care
less.
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| 00:56:11 | >> Give me a hug.
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| 00:56:13 | >> And now you're asking me to
give you a hug.
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| 00:56:15 | WHAT THE [bleep] FOR?
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| 00:56:17 | [bleep], THAT'S YOUR PROBLEM.
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| 00:56:18 | IT AIN'T GOT [bleep] TO DO WITH
Me.
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| 00:56:21 | >> [whispering] I KNOW HOW IT
Feels.
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| 00:56:23 | >> Yeah, you should have died in
that fire back in the day, and
that's square business.
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| 00:56:28 | Got the trapeze artists to come
out in they black leotards,
flying out the ceiling, man.
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| 00:56:32 | >> And the conductors kind of
really leading this.
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| 00:56:34 | >> Are y'all talking about the
same event that we trying to put
on?
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| 00:56:36 | >> Steal?
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| 00:56:37 | That's treacherous.
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| 00:56:38 | For a charity?
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| 00:56:39 | >> Tell you that you figure it
out, or we cancel it.
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| 00:56:42 | >> They took us and knocked us
all the way back down to ground
zero.
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| 00:56:46 | >> Hell, no. hell, no. hell, no.
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| 00:56:50 | [phone ringing]
>> Report to bad boy
immediately.
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| 00:56:53 | >> I don't know what it could
possibly be about, honestly.
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| 00:56:57 | >> And the end of the day, there
is a weak link in there, and we
do not need no weak links.
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