Issues With Jane Velez-Mitchell

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00:00:00I don't like them say the word, paparazzi.
00:00:03I make them call p-people.
00:00:08I don't want them to go to school saying, the paparazzi followed us.
00:00:10That's so creepy.
00:00:12>> But now nat tv crews have packed upane left, the kids are reportedly in withdrawal.
00:00:17Kate says they sobbed when the cameras were finally gone.
00:00:21Life on reality tv is the only life they have ever known.
00:00:23So what happens to these poor kids now?
00:00:26I want to welcome my truly fantastic guest panel, danny bonaduce.
00:00:34Radio host philadelphia.
00:00:35And we know him best as an actor and reality star.
00:00:39Here's a clip from vh1's " >> I'm going to run to the rest room real quick.
00:00:47I didn't do it.
00:00:51>> Do what?
00:00:52>> I didn't have sex with anybody.
00:00:56>> Another reality star, joining me tonight, omarosa, here's her " >> I didn't come here to make friends.
00:01:09I said that from day one.
00:01:10And if you would all stop being so freakin sensitive.
00:01:17>> I'm not sensitive.
00:01:18>> You just told me, I'm a good person.
00:01:21>> I am a good person.
00:01:21>> I am a good person.
00:01:22>> What does that have to do with this?
00:01:23>> You know what?
00:01:26Life's too short to be a [ bleep ] -- dale archer, clinical psychologist, stewart brazil, fabulous casting agent.
00:01:31Alicia corals, you've been all over this story.
00:01:33What is the very latest on the gosselin's divorce?
00:01:39>> The very latest is that the divorce is finally settled.
00:01:41These two have been fighting nonstop.
00:01:42Jon gosselin took over $200,000 out of the account.
00:01:45He had to pay it back.
00:01:47It's just been a war of the words.
00:01:48Going on tv crying, nasty accusations, so finally the divorce is finalized.
00:01:54>> Wow.
00:01:54Now as part of the divorce settlement, we heard jon, reportedly, has to pay child support in the five-figure range every month.
00:02:01That's at least $10,000 a month, possibly a lot more.
00:02:06My question is, how is he going to pay it?
00:02:08Jon was pitching his own reality show, "divorced dad's club" and featuring himself and another winner, lindsey lohan's dad.
00:02:22But tlc tried to block him from getting another tv job citing his contract with the network.
00:02:25So I've got to go back to alicia on this.
00:02:28Will jon actually be forced to get a real job?
00:02:30>> Jon might have to get a real job.
00:02:32At the end of the day when you're on reality tv, it's very rare.
00:02:35But usually your 15 seconds of fame are extremely quick.
00:02:37Right now he's not america's sweetheart anymore.
00:02:41America saw a different side of him with this divorce, they saw him running around with all kinds of women.
00:02:45So he's not exactly the most marketable of people right now.
00:02:49He might have to go out there, roll up his sleeves, gets a real job.
00:02:53>> Here's my big issue.
00:02:54Tv or not tv.
00:02:54How shakespearian.
00:02:56When jon and kate split, tlc planned a new show called "kate " as soon as jon was cut out of the equation, he suddenly had an epiphany and decided, oh, I now have a problem with my kids being on tv.
00:03:09Listen to him on cnn's "larry " >> I don't want them to film anymore.
00:03:18I don't think it's healthy for them.
00:03:20The reason I don't think it's healthy for them is that we're going through a divorce right now, and I don't think it should be televised and I think my kids should be taken off the show.
00:03:26>> Now that the divorce is final, will he decide, okay, it's okay for his kids to be back on tv?
00:03:31Or will he say, it's okay for a price?
00:03:36Bottom line, and I want to put this question to stewart brazzle, you are a reality show casting agent, you know this world.
00:03:48Do you think jon has the leverage to block a new "kate plus eight"?
00:03:53>> You know, jane, I have to say that I agree with alicia that jon has truly shown his true colors this year.
00:03:58At the end of the day, he is a father.
00:04:01Jon and kate are parents.
00:04:03No one's paying attention to these kids.
00:04:05I want to take a look at, is being on reality tv healthy for these kids.
00:04:09On's going to put the stops to it, because he misses his face on television.
00:04:17Let's be real.
00:04:19I think it will be interesting to see how this all pans out t can go any way right now.
00:04:22>> Omarosa, you again, steeped in the reality show world.
00:04:25Knowing what you know about this divorce and his sudden epiphany that he doesn't think his children should be on the show at the same time they don't want him anymore, do you think now that the divorce is settled, do you think he will bellow kate to have her "kate plus eight" show without him?
00:04:52>> Unfortunately jon has shown himself to be quite a vindictive person.
00:04:56There's no question he's going to continue to block kate from prospering because he can't have her, he can't be in the equation any longer and certainly can't extend his 15 minutes of fame.
00:05:03He'll continue to block it but it hurts his children ultimately.
00:05:09How are you going to support these children?
00:05:11There are a lot of kids to support and it was an income stream for this family and i think in the long run, it will be the kids who suffer.
00:05:16>> Danny bonaduce, the kids are reportedly suffering withdrawal because they've grown up around these cameras.
00:05:22They've never known anything else.
00:05:23Now the cameras have been yanked.
00:05:25Kate herself said they're sobbing.
00:05:27I don't know whether she said that because she wants them back on a show or whether they were really sobbing.
00:05:30You were a child star.
00:05:33What happens to kids when they suddenly turn the camera off?
00:05:36>> I'll tell you, there's a big rumor that being a child star is the worst thing in the world.
00:05:39That's not true.
00:05:40Being a child star is actually a great deal of fun.
00:05:41Being an ex-child star, that's terrible.
00:05:43When you grow up and you've been used to being famous and all of a sudden all you're trained for is being a busboy, famous busboy is the worst job description in the world.
00:05:49They need that camera back because that's what they know and know nothing else.
00:05:52For jon to get another tv show is missing several ingredients, charm, grace, handsomeness, look, talent.
00:06:06He doesn't have a shot, he will be homeless by my calculations.
00:06:08>> You're saying he's going to be homeless, I've got you.
00:06:10But you're also saying something I find pretty extraordinary.
00:06:11But as a former child star yourself, you're saying that it's actually hurting these kids to have the cameras yanked from them?
00:06:20They're used to them, and it's part of their self-esteem and they should continue to have the cameras on them?
00:06:25Are you really -- do you really believe that?
00:06:28>> Well, I really believe that i have seen the gosselin family and they show no great dexterity in any other world.
00:06:36I'm saying that -- let's pick the lesser of two evils, we're you're either breeding new eight gas station attendants or give at least enough money to survive.
00:06:51These children know nothing of survival.
00:06:53They know anything about being pampered and watched their family grovel and fight over money and fame.
00:06:56That's all they know and that's all they'll try to accomplish.
00:06:57>> I think we've got to bring the psychiatrist in on this one.
00:07:02 dale archer, the conventional wisdom is that it's bad for the kids to have a camera in their face the whole time.
00:07:08They don't know reality, tv affects reality, their parents become stilted, they begin mugging for the camera, they become big phonies.
00:07:15This is all bad for them.
00:07:16Now you hear danny saying, it's even worse to be an ex-child star, to have the camera yanked once you're used to having all that attention.
00:07:26>> Yeah, danny is absolutely right.
00:07:29Because understand that kids understand normal to be what their reality is.
00:07:31So if they have cameras in their face all the time, they have people around them, producers, technicians and all those folks, they bond with those folks and they bond with the cameras.
00:07:38They know that as normal.
00:07:40Now take the cameras away, something is missing from their life.
00:07:45But here's what I'm concerned about.
00:07:47Next year the cameras come back again, and so they feel normal again.
00:07:50Basically I think we're breeding fame addicts here by putting the cameras there, taking it away, putting it back, and the only time they ever feel normal is when the cameras are on them.
00:08:00>> We have now coined a new phrase here on "issues," breeding fame addicts.
00:08:05Breeding fame addicts.
00:08:06That's a scary concept.
00:08:08All right, everyone.
00:08:09Hang tight.
00:08:10More on the jon and kate divorce drama in a moment.
00:08:13Plus, blinded by the bright lights of hollywood, nick hogan this is just a sad case, wrecked his car leaving his best friend clinging to life.
00:08:22But instead of worrying about his buddy, it seemed nick was angling for -- you've got it.
00:08:25A new reality show.
00:08:27But first, jon and kate plus eight, the marriage is kaput.
00:08:30Divorce, final.
00:08:31Show, canceled.
00:08:33What about the poor kids?
00:08:34They were exploited.
00:08:36But how will they deal with having no cameras?
00:08:41>> Jon gosselin admitted the kids did not have the pennsylvania permits required to be on a television show.
00:08:48We already know they're not being fairly compensated.
00:08:50This is a mess of huge proportions, because now we have hundreds of kids on reality shows.
00:11:45>> Larry: Is he a good father?
00:11:45>> He is.
00:11:50>> Larry: Why the pause?
00:11:56>> His decisions right now are not ones that I would necessarily make.
00:12:01But down deep in his heart, i know that is he.
00:12:05>> Kate gosselin has a tough time calling jon a good dad, especially after the string of young girlfriends he's reportedly had since they've split.
00:12:13Back to my fabulous panel.
00:12:15I want to ask stewart brazzle, who's a reality show casting agent about this whole concept of kids and breeding kids for fame.
00:12:25A phrase I'll have to attribute to dale archer.
00:12:30Good work coming up with that fabulous concept.
00:12:32Not!
00:12:34Stewart, listen, I was a showbiz kid, I went out and auditioned.
00:12:41And there's something called the stage mother.
00:12:43My mom was not one of them.
00:12:44That's probably why I was not successful as a child actor.
00:12:46But there are stage mothers who live vicariously through their children, and they push them and really treat their child like a commodity, something they've got to sell at all times.
00:12:51You deal with these women.
00:12:56What's up with them?
00:12:58>> Yeah.
00:13:00You know, jane, you said it right.
00:13:07We have the same thing with the heene family, using the kids to get fame for the parents.
00:13:14And it is a scary, scary situation with the gosselins.
00:13:15It's amazed me they've been all over tv saying how broke they are when to me they're marketing themselves and making plenty of money.
00:13:20Jon's running around showing that he's a complete d-bag while the whole time they're upset about losing the show for themselves.
00:13:29I'm sure the kids are experiencing loss, but that's normal for children.
00:13:32I don't think it's a good idea for them to continue living their entire lives in front of a reality tv cameras.
00:13:38Stage moms?
00:13:40Complete, complete nightmares.
00:13:43>> Let's psychobabble this little bit.
00:13:47Danny bonaduce, you again, were a child star.
00:13:50Do you think -- talk to us about your parents.
00:13:52I mean, why were you funneled into that world?
00:13:55Do you think it hurt you overall in your life?
00:13:57Or are you glad that you had that experience at the end of the day?
00:14:01>> Oh, I'm absolutely glad that I had that experience at the end of the day.
00:14:04Had I not had that experience, we would not be having this experience together, and i cherish our moments, jane.
00:14:08I will tell you this, I wrote a television show that was very successful called "my kid is the " who -- we had a woman on it who I am not a doctor, who in my opinion, was certifiably insane.
00:14:30She was a stage mother and would manage her child, yell at them to perform and smile bigger.
00:14:33We had to get her off the show because the show was about being a good stage mother.
00:14:36Now she's on the another reality show about crazy women called " matter of fact, crazy sells whether it's a parent or a child, people will watch a train wreck every time, and the gosselins are nothing but a car crash.
00:14:48>> You'd think a couple that made the cover of every tabloid might shea -- might start shy away from the cameras during break-up.
00:15:01Huh-uh.
00:15:02Check out jon as he reads a paparazzi e-mail from kate.
00:15:04>> I just got an e-mail from kate.
00:15:05Saying she says she doesn't want to see me.
00:15:07>> She says she doesn't want to see you?
00:15:09>> No.
00:15:10Hold on one second.
00:15:11She wants to change custody.
00:15:12I would appreciate if you would pick them up at the bus stop 00 and stay until 6:00.
00:15:16So that's ridiculous.
00:15:17I'm going to stay longer than that.
00:15:19I don't care.
00:15:20>> So it's supposed to be a joint day because it was a birthday.
00:15:23>> Yeah.
00:15:24All holidays, birthdays, yeah.
00:15:27>> How do you feel when e-mails like this come out?
00:15:30>> It doesn't matter.
00:15:31If it's a sign off day, I can stay as long as I want, I will.
00:15:35>> Raising the question, if he's got to read his personal e-mails to the paparazzi on a street corner, is he addicted to attention?
00:15:44Omarosa, you've been on "the " reality show with donald trump.
00:15:54You also have another show coming up.
00:16:00Is there is an addictive quality to this reality show attention, where it's like you want another hit, it's like heroin?
00:16:09>> There's no question it sucks you in, it's like a vacuum.
00:16:11It's difficult to get out of it unless you understand the business side.
00:16:15I've always focused on the business side of this.
00:16:17What jon is attracted to right now is the money that comes with being in the public eye.
00:16:21He's getting booked for $15,000 per night gigs to host parties.
00:16:23He's getting $10,000 and $15,000 to go hang out with pretty women.
00:16:27That's what I think he's addicted to.
00:16:32I'm not certain that now he's waning from the spotlight he'll continue to have that income stream.
00:16:35I'm hoping that's what this is about, trying to get more income for his children as opposed to exploiting his awful personality.
00:16:41>> Kate got the reputation for being a nagging, domineering wife and mother.
00:16:45She even poked fun at her own public persona on the nbc's "jay " listen to this.
00:16:53>> Stop taking pictures.
00:16:54>> Just a couple more, kate.
00:16:55Just a couple more.
00:16:56>> Hey, what did mommy just say?
00:16:56>> What?
00:16:57>> I asked you to stop taking pictures and you continued.
00:17:00>> Okay, but we're not your kids, ma'am.
00:17:02We're not part of your plus eight.
00:17:06>> Don't talk back to your mother.
00:17:10>> I'm glad kate can laugh at herself, but give me a break, this love-hate relationship with the paparazzi, pushing them away, telling her kids to call them the p-word and here she is goofing on it.
00:17:22It seems alecia, you're the entertainment reporter for the ap.
00:17:27They want the money, the power, the adulation, they don't want any of the bad stuff.
00:17:33The scrutiny, the paparazzi following you, the questions.
00:17:36>> You're absolutely right.
00:17:38Reality stars are no different than real stars when it comes to that.
00:17:42Everybody wants you to be the -- the media to hear when they've done something for charity but nobody wants to talk about the downside of fame.
00:17:50You cannot have it both ways.
00:17:53When you put your children out there on national tv, when you've made hundreds of thousands of dollars exploiting your family letting them into your home, this is what's going to happen.
00:18:03There's a negative reaction and jon and kate have to deal with that as well.
00:18:07>> Dr. dale archer, ten seconds.
00:18:10Is there something called fame addiction?
00:18:12>> Yeah, there definitely is fame addiction.
00:18:13They used to say it's about the money, but we now know fame is a drug in and of itself.
00:18:16Just like any addiction, certain individuals can become addicted to the spotlight.
00:18:18>> Everyone stay there.
00:18:20We've got more reality nightmares.
00:18:23The hogan family basically torn apart.
00:18:25Hulk divorced his wife, his son in the slammer for a while.
00:18:28But all the while the family did not stray far from the cameras.
00:18:30Are they addicted to the spotlight?
00:18:34Plus reality show wannabes.
00:18:35People doing crazy things for their 15 minutes of fame.
00:18:39Octomom leading the charge.
00:18:41But there are others and at what cost?
00:18:43>> I do have two helpers with the baeshs and that's a great help.
00:18:52And then I have someone help me primarily -- with my kid who has autism and then with one of the others.
00:22:00>>> Nick's focus in talking to me over and over and being constantly under the microscope from the press is what can I do to keep the focus on john?
00:22:13What can we do to help him?
00:22:15>> It was a busy, busy, busy year for the flamboyant family for the vh1 family series "hogan " the hulkster released a tell-all book, and a very bitter and public divorce battle.
00:22:28The list goes on and on.
00:22:30Safe to say, this is another family that's managed to keep themselves right in the spotlight.
00:22:37One horrific incident that the hogans undoubtedly wish the headlines never occurred occurred when nick, known as the prankster of the family lost control of his toyota supra in august 2007, smashed into a palm tree, paralyzing his friend john graziano.
00:22:58Nick spent five months in jail for reckless driving.
00:23:00More than a year later, graziano was finally released from a tampa hospital.
00:23:02Unfortunately, look at that poor guy.
00:23:04Major brain damage.
00:23:06While behind bars, controversial conversations between nick and his pro wrestler dad were made public.
00:23:11Listen to this.
00:23:15>> John was a negative person.
00:23:17>> He was what?
00:23:18>> He was a negative person.
00:23:20>> Will you work on that reality deal for me?
00:23:24>> So that the minute I walk out of here, boom.
00:23:28>> Real-alty.
00:23:35Real-ality is how he puts it.
00:23:36Oy.
00:23:37Based on this disturbing conversation, do you think nick was handed simply for being a member of this family made him somehow feel invincible to punishment?
00:23:50>> I don't know he felt invincible to punishment, he didn't say when I walk out of here today, he just said that's what he knows is that the television camera puts food on his table.
00:24:03So whenever I get out of here, please make sure I have food on the table and that equals a camera in front of my face.
00:24:09That's all the hogans know.
00:24:10Hulk hogan has been famous since I was 8 years d.
00:24:12That's a all that family knows.
00:24:15They're multimillion airs.
00:24:19They own $100 million worth of property, and they got it through this television set and that's all that kid knows.
00:24:23So yes, it's bizarre that that's what was on his mind, but that's his only salvation, because that's all he understands.
00:24:27 hogan, and we'll see this video in a second.
00:24:32Take off that head wrap when you're in court.
00:24:34Please.
00:24:40Radaronline recently reported that nick driepd bombshell in the testimony.
00:24:45In the negligence lawsuit.
00:24:45Are you sitting down?
00:24:47I know my panel is.
00:24:49During the depositions, nick was grilled by lawyers for the injured man's family and a shocking twist, radaronline claims nick testified that john graziano, the victim, quote, wanted to kill homos, end quote.
00:25:01Again, he's talking negatively for a person who cannot speak for himself because of he's been injured in a car accident due to the driver of the person who is making the insult.
00:25:12Alicia, just give us the update on this.
00:25:13>> You know what?
00:25:15This to me personifies exactly how reality television can tear a family apart.
00:25:19I've been interviewing the hogans for years.
00:25:21When I first started introducing them when their reality show started, they came in loving each other.
00:25:28A couple months ago, hulk comes in and plays messages from linda cursing him out.
00:25:31Reality tv can really rip a family apart.
00:25:32They need to stay out of the spotlight and focus.
00:25:34>> Everyone stay right there.
00:25:35This is a special edition of "issues," reality tv nightmares.
00:25:37We'll show you a former reality show contestant who killed.
00:27:59>>> Tonight, from reality tv contestant to cold-blooded killer ryan jenkins murdered his model wife and stuffed her in a suitcase.
00:28:10One week later he killed himself.
00:28:13The murder sparked an international man hunt.
00:28:15Was this ryan's last grasp at the reality spotlight?
00:28:17Plus, desperate for attention.
00:28:18Average joes seeking the spotlight.
00:28:20Octomom.
00:28:21Balloon boy, and the white house party crashers, just to name a few.
00:28:24These wannabe reality stars will do anything for their five minutes of fame.
00:28:28But at what cost?
00:28:30An "issues" special investigation of reality tv nightmares.
00:28:35Contestant ryan jenkins turned his newfound fame into a gruesome tragedy.
00:28:43He was not on one, but two vh1 shows, "megan wants a " police say he murdered his ex-wife, cut out her teeth and fingers.
00:28:58Police had to use her breast implants in order to identify her.
00:29:01Jenkins was a man clearly leading a double life.
00:29:05Here is ryan on vh1's "megan " >> this is going to be the best night of your life.
00:29:16Out of all these guys I'm definitely the most james bond out of anywhere.
00:29:18>> Ryan, save the day.
00:29:20>> Give him some goggles.
00:29:21>> I decided to appeal to all your senses.
00:29:23First, I'd like to start with your mouth.
00:29:30>> Jenkins already fled canada by the time jasmine fiore's body was found in a trash bin in southern california.
00:29:35But as police started to close in on him, he hanged himself in a hotel room.
00:29:40Could this double tragedy have been prevented?
00:29:45Were there red flags in jenkins' past that were missed?
00:29:49I want to welcome back my fantastic panel.
00:29:53Reality star, dana bonaduce.
00:29:55Here is a clip from "breaking " >> I'm going to run to the rest room real quick.
00:29:58I'll be right back.
00:29:59Thanks, man.
00:30:06I didn't do it.
00:30:09>> Do what?
00:30:10>> I didn't have sex with anybody.
00:30:12>> Another reality star joining me, omarosa, here she is on "the " >> this is where the personality attacks come in.
00:30:22I didn't come here to make friends.
00:30:23I said that from day one.
00:30:24And if you would stop being so freakin' sensitive.
00:30:26>> I'm not sensitive, honey.
00:30:26>> You just told me, I'm a good person.
00:30:29>> I am a good person.
00:30:31>> What does that have to do with this?
00:30:33>> You know what?
00:30:36Life's too short to be a [ bleep ] -- dale archer, clinical psychiatrist.
00:30:40Stewart brazzle, casting agent, there you are.
00:30:44And alecia corrals.
00:30:46Entertainment reporter for the associated press.
00:30:48Great to you have all.
00:30:49Stewart, start with you.
00:30:50You were the casting agent for "megan wants to be a " did you interact with this killer, ryan jenkins, who later smitted suicide.
00:31:00And how did his surface appearance and story differ from the sinister dark side we later found out about?
00:31:05>> Yes, jane, I actually am the one who found ryan, met ryan in las vegas.
00:31:10You know, I want to start by saying that in no way do I think being on a reality show is to blame for ryan murdering someone.
00:31:19I think that reality can bring out the good and the bad in people.
00:31:23This happened to be bringing out the bad in someone.
00:31:27Did I see red flags that i thought that this would happen?
00:31:30He seemed like a very happy guy.
00:31:31He was out to have a good time, did I think it would end in such devastating tragedy?
00:31:37Absolutely not.
00:31:38I think we need to look at what being on a reality show can do to someone and how to ease them back into their normal lives.
00:31:48Portray himself very effectively as this very highly educated cultured man who came from welt, whose father was a prominent professional in canada.
00:31:59But he also did have a rap sheet, and in canada, he was convicted for assault of a girlfriend in 2005.
00:32:04He got probation, was ordered to get counseling for domestic violence and sex addiction.
00:32:09Why didn't that come up?
00:32:13Stewart, is that because it happened in canada?
00:32:15>> You know what?
00:32:18I was looking at the news today taken looks like the normal vetting process was in order and now the background check, you know the company who conducted the background check, then subcontracted someone in canada.
00:32:29There's now a lawsuit involved.
00:32:30No one wants to take blame for this.
00:32:32Obviously no one wants to take blame.
00:32:34Something fell through the cracks.
00:32:37>> That's interesting.
00:32:38You don't to the background check, you hire a company that does the -- you're not a private investigator.
00:32:41>> Right.
00:32:42>> You're a casting agent.
00:32:46>> Your job not knocking on the doors, this person do they have -- that's not your job.
00:32:50Okay, so you contract that out to a company that is a private investigative company, or does that kind of work, and they come back and say this guy's clean or this guy's dirty, right?
00:33:00>> Right.
00:33:03Actually, I don't even do that.
00:33:07I put -- I interview ryan, put him on camera.
00:33:09I turn over the tapes to the production company.
00:33:11The production company then hires the company that then subcontracted another company.
00:33:14So as you can see, there are lots and lots of layers to this.
00:33:16>> Wow.
00:33:17>> There are lots of layers to how someone actually ends up on the reality tv show.
00:33:21It's not that cut and dry.
00:33:22>> We want to dig into those layers right now.
00:33:25I have to ask the question, is reality tv a magnet for madness?
00:33:27Boy, we're coming up with a lot of phrases today.
00:33:31On this reality show.
00:33:35Does reality tv, seriously, attract the kind of people who by their very nature are imbalanced?
00:33:45Danny bonaduce, you starred on " you were very open about having " let's take a look at this.
00:33:53>> Without gretchen I'm a 30-second sound bite, ex-child star, found dead.
00:33:56>> Danny bonaduce, obsessive personality.
00:33:58>> I take enough pills to get full.
00:34:02>> Who is danny bonaduce?
00:34:03>> I'm not clear on who he is.
00:34:04Mentally unsound, screwed up, unhappy.
00:34:07Open pound, lost, barely famous.
00:34:10>> So, danny, do you think there is something in your personality that attracted you to reality tv that made you more likely than joe schmo to bare all your demons and your dark side to the camera?
00:34:23>> No, I think that I have more demons and dark sides which draws the camera to me.
00:34:26Remember, in the book, frankenstein is not the monster.
00:34:28The monster is named the monster.
00:34:31The guy who makes the monster is frankenstein.
00:34:33We are frankenstein.
00:34:34When we talk about, do we have to ease these people back into society once they've been on a reality show, no, you need to ease soldiers who have been into battle back into society.
00:34:47If reality shows are so dangerous that you need to readjust people before you can set them free on the streets then we should stop doing them and we're not far from that point.
00:34:57Has anybody seen this new show, "the jersey shore"?
00:35:04>> "Issues," we did a whole segment on it.
00:35:08>> As an italian-american, not offended in the slightest.
00:35:09There's a small -- >> that's another subject.
00:35:11My issue tonight, deadly reality, ryan jenkins, a history anger and jealous and he was also cited aside from what we have already discussed for battery after allegedly hitting jasmine.
00:35:26This alleged murderer is put on a dating show, and we have to ask, and I applaud stewart for being very up front answering these questions, where were the red flags?
00:35:33The problem is ryan seemed frighteningly normal.
00:35:38Check out this clip from vh1's "megan wants to be a " you decide.
00:35:43>> Time with megan alone was enough to let her get in touch with my deeper side, and redeem myself for, you know, some of the silly things I said at dinner.
00:35:53>> Omarosa, you're looking at this guy.
00:35:56He does seem, on this clip, to be normal.
00:36:00He's educated.
00:36:02There's no way that you could know, unless you knew his record, which apparently somebody goofed on that.
00:36:07There's no way you could possibly predict this guy was going to be a murderer.
00:36:11>> Well, jane, I don't think all the data tells a true story.
00:36:13When we first went on "the apprentice," they conducted extensive background investigations and also put us through a battery of tests and psychological evaluations.
00:36:24I believe the producers know the makeup of the personality that they're getting but they don't know how that person will respond under pressure or what triggers will come out as a result of being exposed to this process.
00:36:34So out of fairness to stewart who is there as the casting person, you may pick somebody who is a big personality on camera but not know they will go put somebody in a dumpster.
00:36:44There's no way to know that.
00:36:44>> You hit on a key point.
00:36:46 dale archer, the very likely people to be "good television," in other words, excitable, upbeat, those are the very people who are more likely to have some kind of emotional problem.
00:37:00>> Well, I don't know about that, but I think that the important point here is that everyone who has a drink doesn't become an alcoholic, everyone who goes on a reality show doesn't become warped and twisted and only interested in reality.
00:37:13But do you have a subset of individuals who are going to end up with an addiction to the spotlight and that's very clearly what we see.
00:37:21And I think in ryan jenkins' case, he forgot the reality of where the show ended and real life began.
00:37:28In his mind, I think he thought this murder was part of the show until all of a sudden a week later it all came crashing down on him and he realized what he did and he committed suicide.
00:37:36>> Alicia corrals, ten seconds.
00:37:38I understand you have something to add very briefly about jasmine.
00:37:42>> I just think it's tragic all the way around.
00:37:43But again you can't blame reality tv.
00:37:45Ryan was troubled.
00:37:45I think he would have done this whether he was on reality tv or if he wasn't.
00:37:48>> All right.
00:37:49Everyone stay right there.
00:37:50We're just getting warmed up, addicted to fame.
00:37:55Regular joes.
00:37:56Do they do anything they can to get attention?
00:37:59Are these people crazy?
00:38:00They're everywhere.
00:38:01They will stop at nothing to get their 15 minutes of fame.
00:38:02>> Three, two, one!
00:38:03Whoa!
00:38:09>> Oh, my god.
00:38:10Okay.
00:38:14Are you in?
00:38:14Get him -- put the tether!
00:41:41>>> The most dangerous breed of reality tv star?
00:41:44The wannabes.
00:41:45I'm talking about those people who will do anything to get a slice of fame.
00:41:49Lets take a look at the contenders for this year's most desperate fame chasers.
00:41:55>> I have all of them back.
00:41:57There's eight of them here.
00:42:00>> We did this for the show.
00:42:02>> Mr. and mrs. salahi.
00:42:06>> It's so tough to decide.
00:42:08But let's see.
00:42:10This year's winner -- and the winner is octomom.
00:42:16Here she is on radaronline.
00:42:18Nadya suleman parades her 14 kids in front of the cameras every single chance she gets.
00:42:28Courtesy of "life & style magazine" our favorite christmas card here on "issues," yep, it's claus and her team of elves.
00:42:37Honorable mention definitely goes to the reality hungry heene family.
00:42:42They pulled off that hoax that tricked the whole country, including us here at "issues," and it was all to get their own reality show.
00:42:51You know, I even got caught up on the excitement.
00:42:55Here I am on halloween dressed as little falcon henne, complete complete with my miniature mylar flying saucer.
00:43:04And, of course, we cannot forget the d.c. party crashers.
00:43:06They had the gall to show up to the white house uninvited.
00:43:09Was it just to secure a reality tv deal?
00:43:11Sure looks like it.
00:43:13These days you don't have to be an actor, singer, dancer, you don't need any talent to be a star.
00:43:20Come on.
00:43:21You just need 15 minutes in front of any camera.
00:43:23We are a nation addicted to fame.
00:43:26Straight back out to my fantastic expert panel and delighted to welcome al reynolds, star of "life after," hey, al, how are you doing.
00:43:36>> Hi, jane, how are you?
00:43:37Good to see you.
00:43:39>> And brad cohen of "the " and we start with omarosa, the reality tv star via "the " you've really brought some class to this whole reality genre, omarosa.
00:43:56I congratulate you for that.
00:43:57People who make it need a unique ingredient.
00:43:59What is that unique ingredient for being a successful reality star?
00:44:04>> I think the first ingredient is to be able to self-produce yourself.
00:44:09In the sense that being aware on "the apprentice" that there were 15 other contestants.
00:44:19That they were type-a personalities.
00:44:21All vying to work for donald trump.
00:44:23I went toe to toe with him in the boardroom, I took everybody down that got in my way because I wanted that ultimate prize.
00:44:29So I think that's first step is being bold, brazen and understanding that you're competing for that coveted air space.
00:44:38>> Yeah, but your bold and brazen has intelligence and skill behind it.
00:44:42These other folks that we're talking about, it's really just more grasping without really wanting to be of service in any way for any higher cause.
00:44:47Take a look at nadya suleman.
00:44:48The octomom.
00:44:49Is she addicted to having babies?
00:44:51It's truly horrifying.
00:44:54Listen to this from abc's "good " >> will you ever have more children?
00:44:58>> Oh, my goodness, I won't even talk about that.
00:45:00I don't know, if I get married some day in the future.
00:45:03>> You could see maybe having more?
00:45:05>> I mean, you know, I've been kind of a science experiment -- you know, by choice, a kind of a science experiment for almost ten years.
00:45:12And if I wanted to do it the traditional way and get married, that's like another chapter.
00:45:17>> Please, octomom, stop having babies.
00:45:22Brad fore cohen, the reason why she won is because, while the others did crazy things, this woman actually gave birth to 14 kids for the purposes of, basically, getting the attention that she desperately craved.
00:45:37And she's talked about being an only child.
00:45:40I mean, is -- is there something pathological about acting out your own personal traumas in this way?
00:45:46>> I mean, certainly when you look at the people that are hungry for the fame and hungry to get on these reality shows, those are usually the most tragic ones of the situation.
00:45:55I mean, like the octomom thing is amazing she would go to those lengths to not only get her own reality show, but be known, be famous.
00:46:03She talked about angelina jolie and all these other people she wanted to emulate.
00:46:07It's really a tragic situation, when you pull others into your delusional, you know, where you're at in your delusions of fame.
00:46:16So she's actually, you know, these kids are now subject to her wanting to be famous.
00:46:19And it's the same thing with the henne family.
00:46:22He pulled these kids in.
00:46:23I mean, the kid was getting sick on tv, and all because the father was the one who was striking out for the fame and going for it.
00:46:29And I don't feel so bad for the people who crashed the obama party.
00:46:32>> You're absolutely right.
00:46:34In both of these cases, they're pulling children into their grandiose desire for fame.
00:46:42Let's listen to -- in the balloon boy case, dad's frantic 911 call that turned out to be phony baloney.
00:47:10>> Al reynolds, what's so upsetting about that, is look at the terrible values that they are teaching their children, lie, do anything for the show.
00:47:18>> You know what, jane?
00:47:21You're right.
00:47:23But it makes for great tv.
00:47:24I do not like the fact that, you know, in these cases that we're looking at right now that kids are involved, and we really don't know the traumatic affect this will have on them and as they come to age as adults or whatever.
00:47:39But I've got to tell you, it's definitely good stories.
00:47:41And as an american, we are obsessed with this type of television.
00:47:45So it makes for great tv, it makes for great news, and we can't get enough of it.
00:47:51it makes for great news, and that's why reality tv is exactly what it's called, reality television.
00:47:58>> If people wouldn't watch, these people wouldn't become so desperate to get on tv.
00:48:03Ilts america that's watching, and it's america that's buying the us weeklies and the star magazines.
00:48:10>> Let me just say this.
00:48:12What's really sick about this, dale archer, a guy who could pull off that kind of stunt and fool the entire world, including news organizations, it was creative, but his creativity was directed to something toxic.
00:48:26>> You're absolutely right.
00:48:27But jane, I think you hit the nail on the head earlier when you talked about the no talent of these individuals.
00:48:3330 Years ago to be famous, you had to do something, you had to be something and you had to have a talent.
00:48:39Now anybody can do something that's a stunt or a scheme and get on tv.
00:48:44>> As long as you have a mi lar balloon, everybody stay there.
00:48:49We'll have more wannabes, including the white house crashers.
00:48:57We'll analyze them next.
00:52:09.
00:52:10>>> That poor kid.
00:52:10We did this for the show.
00:52:13Unbelievable.
00:52:14I even fell for that one.
00:52:15We're talking about reality tvwannabes.
00:52:19How about the white house crashers?
00:52:22They showed up with tv cameras in tow, all because she aspired to be one of these.
00:52:35>> No, you don't.
00:52:38Get your [ bleep ] hands off me.
00:52:42>> 1910!
00:52:54>> [ Bleep ] [ bleep ].
00:52:58>> Put your hands on me!
00:53:00Put your hands on me!
00:53:01>> This is not me being a victim, this is me telling you to shut the [ bleep ] up.
00:53:08>> Danny bonaduce, if that had been skriptd as a movie script, they might get nominated for oscars shs but somehow since they're doing it on the fly, it robz it of its pathos, I would say.
00:53:26>> It robs it of dig nitty dignity, and I'll write a reality show.
00:53:42It's called, let me in here, and they say who can talk themselves into better parties that they weren't invited to.
00:53:49I think it's a better show.
00:53:50>> The campaign for fame.
00:53:54We have called it, after careful nals, the tequila syndrome.
00:54:01She is only famous for having a million friends on myspace.
00:54:04And she got a reality show out of it.
00:54:07Take a look at her idea of art.
00:54:22>> Hey!
00:54:27>> This is your shot at love.
00:54:29>> Bradford cohen, there is some kind of commonality that I'm seeing coming out of these reality shows.
00:54:38These clips, well, it's almost wild, out-of-control behavior with no other purpose other than to do something that is so hot that it attracts the spotlight.
00:54:49But there is no real script or content to it.
00:54:52I mean, doing shots?
00:54:55>> Well, certainly there are some reality shows that are based around that.
00:55:00That happens to be one of them.
00:55:02The apprentice was a little bircht reality show than the normal because it was based around your business acumen.
00:55:09Themp picking people that were aggressive and steam rollers and don't give up arguments and they end up casting those types of individuals.
00:55:20In those types of shows where it's a love show or a family doing things they normally do, it's a totally different feeling behind it.
00:55:28So they go out of their way to get crazy because they feel that's what the camera is looking for.
00:55:34>> I would ask, what is next for reality television, but guess what?
00:55:38I'm afraidoas and that's a subject for another day.
00:55:41You're watching "issues" on hln.

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