| 00:00:01 | Just be with her at this time, and be with
her family.
|
| 00:00:04 | Be with vicki.
|
| 00:00:05 | - We were fighting, and now we're praying.
|
| 00:00:07 | Like, holy unappropriateness.
|
| 00:00:09 | - Just hold them in your arms, please.
|
| 00:00:10 | And give them the courage and the strength,
just the faith, father, to be with you
right now in a time like this.
|
| 00:00:16 | - I thought it was gonna be, like, a nice,
relaxing trip in san francisco.
|
| 00:00:19 | We were gonna, like, enjoy the bay and go
to lunch.
|
| 00:00:22 | I guess when you get six women together,
you can't have an easy day.
|
| 00:00:25 | It was a pain in the ass.
|
| 00:00:27 | - In jesus' name, amen.
|
| 00:00:30 | - UGH. [clattering noise]
- [laughing] - CHECK, PLEASE.
|
| 00:00:34 | - Well, the prayer came out of nowhere.
|
| 00:00:36 | But the damage was done.
|
| 00:00:37 | She's a hypocrite. period.
|
| 00:01:02 | - Coffee?
|
| 00:01:03 | Oh, I'm sorry, sir. let me bring it to you.
|
| 00:01:10 | [sighs heavily]
- How was san francisco?
|
| 00:01:13 | - It started off good.
|
| 00:01:14 | We went shopping,
which was fun.
|
| 00:01:17 | And then we went to lunch.
|
| 00:01:18 | ..
|
| 00:01:20 | Mostly between alexis and vicki.
|
| 00:01:23 | Alexis started in on the issues that she
had with her,
and, you know, the way she talks to people,
which does not go over well with vicki.
|
| 00:01:33 | Vicki did what vicki does.
|
| 00:01:34 | She gets defensive and she was hysterical.
|
| 00:01:37 | You know, alexis comes off strong.
|
| 00:01:39 | She's extremely opinionated,
and she's a little bit of a know-it-all.
|
| 00:01:42 | ..
|
| 00:01:44 | Seriously, I thought me and gretchen
were the only sane ones there.
|
| 00:01:47 | Vicki said she just doesn't want any part
of it.
|
| 00:01:51 | - She realized those people
don't have a positive effect on her life.
|
| 00:01:54 | So she's being smarter than all of you.
|
| 00:01:58 | And you need to do the same thing.
|
| 00:02:00 | Look at all those people.
|
| 00:02:01 | Is there anybody that you get anything out
of?
|
| 00:02:03 | I'd rather spend my time with the kids.
|
| 00:02:04 | I had a great time with the kids the last
four days.
|
| 00:02:06 | - Well, I spend 90% of my time with the kids.
|
| 00:02:08 | - You really don't. not lately.
|
| 00:02:09 | You've been spending a lot of time doing
stuff,
you know, that's wasting energy. - like what?
|
| 00:02:13 | - Trips away with the girls, or dinners.
|
| 00:02:16 | It's consuming your life.
|
| 00:02:19 | If it's not something-- - it's not consuming
my life.
|
| 00:02:22 | - Okay, then if you're not gonna listen to
me,
- I am listening
to you.
|
| 00:02:26 | - I'm saying to you it is. I'm observing.
|
| 00:02:27 | - So--so these girls are consuming my life?
|
| 00:02:30 | - The drama that it creates, yes.
|
| 00:02:32 | - 90% Of my married life, I've stayed home.
|
| 00:02:35 | I rarely went out with my friends.
|
| 00:02:37 | I was either pregnant, or nursing,
and taking care of kids.
|
| 00:02:40 | So right now, the kids are getting a little
bit older,
and I'm getting a little bit more freedom.
|
| 00:02:44 | And I don't think simon likes that a lot.
|
| 00:02:48 | ..
|
| 00:02:50 | In the midst of all this, 24 hours prior
to that--
or 48 hours prior to that, lynne finds out
that she's gotta move out of her house.
|
| 00:02:58 | This poor woman is going through so much
right now.
|
| 00:03:00 | I mean, she talked about divorce.
|
| 00:03:02 | - I hope not. I hope they can work it out.
|
| 00:03:04 | I said, "you
know what,
"sometimes, you know, you get mad,
"and you don't think, and you talk about
it.
|
| 00:03:09 | "
like, what are you thinking?
|
| 00:03:12 | - Divorce is pretty serious, though.
|
| 00:03:13 | When you mention divorce-- I mean, the "d"
..
|
| 00:03:15 | - It's definitely not easy.
|
| 00:03:30 | - So, um, how are youfeeling about all this?
|
| 00:03:33 | - How am I feeling about hanging with
your mother and your father?
|
| 00:03:37 | - Yeah, are you nervous?
|
| 00:03:38 | - Should I be? - yes.
|
| 00:03:40 | My mom can be a tough cookie sometimes.
|
| 00:03:43 | After getting back from san francisco,
my parents invited slade and me to join them
in palm springs.
|
| 00:03:48 | They rented out merv griffin's personal estate.
|
| 00:03:51 | It's supposed to be fabulous.
|
| 00:03:53 | I think it's important that my parents get
to know him better
and hopefully accept that he's becoming
an important part of my life.
|
| 00:04:00 | My parents are my everything.
|
| 00:04:02 | Been married for 39 years.
|
| 00:04:03 | And it truly is so admirable when I see a
couple
that can stay together that long
through the thick and thin--
raising children, going through
the trials and tribulations that they've
gone through.
|
| 00:04:14 | - Let me show you my worried face.
|
| 00:04:18 | - [laughing]
- I know how to win your mom over.
|
| 00:04:21 | - Oh, really? - yeah, I'm gonna do this.
|
| 00:04:23 | I'm gonna stand there for your mom and I'm
..
|
| 00:04:26 | - [laughing]
- My relationship with gretchen's mother,
..
|
| 00:04:31 | It's funny, I guess is the best way to describe
it.
|
| 00:04:36 | Brenda is unsure of me at this point.
|
| 00:04:39 | She believes gretchen
probably should not be in a relationship,
that she should take some time to really
figure things out,
and has made that very clear to me.
|
| 00:04:52 | .. ♪♪ ah ♪♪
|
| 00:04:55 | - lookit, guys, there's horses.
|
| 00:04:56 | - There's horsies! look at the horsies!
|
| 00:04:59 | Yeah.
|
| 00:05:00 | Holy smokes, this thing is huge.
|
| 00:05:08 | - YEAH. [clears throat]
I KNOW PEOPLE. - [laughing]
Hi. - hi.
|
| 00:05:14 | - How are you? I'm gretchen.
|
| 00:05:15 | - I'm thomas from palm springs rental agency.
|
| 00:05:17 | - Nice to meet you. thank you, thomas.
|
| 00:05:18 | - So we're okay to have our chilla here?
|
| 00:05:20 | - Hey, you guys. - yeah.
|
| 00:05:21 | - Hi, guys. - hi, guys.
|
| 00:05:22 | - Nice of you to make it.
|
| 00:05:23 | - You're already here?- yeah.
|
| 00:05:25 | - We beat you. - hi, hi, hi.
|
| 00:05:27 | Good, you look pretty.
|
| 00:05:29 | - You do too. - hi.
|
| 00:05:30 | - Hi, sweetie. - hi, how are you?
|
| 00:05:31 | - Hi. - whoa, big hat!
|
| 00:05:33 | - If you all wanna follow me,
I'll show you guys the rest of the bedrooms.
|
| 00:05:36 | - So what's this? - this is the master suite.
|
| 00:05:39 | This is actually what merv slept in.
|
| 00:05:41 | - So this is where his main quarters were,
huh?
|
| 00:05:44 | - Right.
|
| 00:05:45 | Merv used this for his private office
all the time that he was out here.
|
| 00:05:48 | - Oh, wow, this is beautiful too.
|
| 00:05:50 | - I wonder how deep the pond is, brenda.
|
| 00:05:52 | You probably couldn't find slade for weeks
in there, huh?
|
| 00:05:56 | - My mom's just concerned
that I'm rushing into a serious relationship,
and she doesn't wanna see me get hurt.
|
| 00:06:00 | - Am I looking at a full horse track?
|
| 00:06:02 | - Right, that's a full-sized horse track.
|
| 00:06:05 | - That explains it.
|
| 00:06:06 | On the way in, gretchen,
I stepped in a little pile of slade right
as I was walking in.
|
| 00:06:10 | [laughing]
- I have feelings too, scott.
|
| 00:06:13 | - [laughing] YEAH.
|
| 00:06:14 | - [giggling]
- We were served a three-day notice to pay
or quit.
|
| 00:06:42 | And I concealed from basically everyone
that I was having money problems.
|
| 00:06:50 | I should've been forthright with my wife
and told lynne what was happening.
|
| 00:06:56 | I don't know where lynne and I are at right
now,
and I'm not really sure what the future is.
|
| 00:07:02 | Lynne's staying at her mom's with the girls,
and I'm staying at the ayres hotel,
because she just doesn't want to be around
me right now.
|
| 00:07:11 | And I understand that.
|
| 00:07:15 | I screwed up.
|
| 00:07:17 | I admit it.
|
| 00:07:18 | - I just don't wanna be lied to and kept
in the dark.
|
| 00:07:21 | This is not protecting me.
|
| 00:07:22 | This is, like, putting me in harm's way.
|
| 00:07:24 | That's not cool.
|
| 00:07:28 | - Hopefully, lynne will find forgiveness
in her heart
one more time.
|
| 00:07:36 | The girls have been pissed off right now.
|
| 00:07:39 | Right now, they need to be enjoying their
lives.
|
| 00:07:43 | If they're gonna choose sides, they need
to choose their mom.
|
| 00:07:45 | Because I'm the one that screwed up, not
her.
|
| 00:07:50 | It's really up to lynne whether or not,
you know, we continue on as a couple.
|
| 00:07:54 | My choice would obviously be to stay married
forever.
|
| 00:08:05 | ..
|
| 00:08:08 | - They say you're supposed to go
and ask for the father's permission.
|
| 00:08:11 | - You're gonna have to ask for both.
|
| 00:08:13 | - I have some things
that I'd like to talk to brenda about.
|
| 00:08:15 | I have an important question
I need to ask gretchen.
|
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| 00:11:53 | - Hello.
|
| 00:11:54 | - Hi, mom.
|
| 00:11:55 | - Hi, honey. how was your day at work?
|
| 00:11:57 | - My night? - your whole night.
|
| 00:11:59 | Dear god, you worked so long.
|
| 00:12:00 | It's crazy. how are you feeling?
|
| 00:12:03 | - Tired.
|
| 00:12:03 | - Briana has not been feeling good.
|
| 00:12:05 | As of right now, we're still uncertain exactly
what she has.
|
| 00:12:09 | - I'm just scared.
|
| 00:12:10 | - Scared for the biopsy, or scared for the
results?
|
| 00:12:13 | - I'm not scared for the actual biopsy.
|
| 00:12:15 | I'm scared for the results. - I know.
|
| 00:12:17 | There's gonna be no cancer, I'm positive.
|
| 00:12:19 | I just--it just has to be that way.
|
| 00:12:21 | You know what the weirdest is?
|
| 00:12:24 | When you're working nights, I get up all
night long
and I keep thinking, okay,
we only have four more hours left.
|
| 00:12:29 | - We? why do you say "we"?
|
| 00:12:31 | - 'Cause I'm connected by your soul.
|
| 00:12:33 | - [whispers] OH, MY GOSH.
|
| 00:12:34 | - I couldn't sleep, I couldn't think
with all the different things that goes through
your mind
when you are thinking somebody you love has
cancer.
|
| 00:12:42 | God, why is it taking so long?
|
| 00:12:43 | I thought they said, like, five to seven
days?
|
| 00:12:46 | It's been nine.
|
| 00:12:47 | - They must still be looking at the cells.
|
| 00:12:49 | Waiting is the hardest part after you've
had a biopsy
or any test whenyou're waiting for the results.
|
| 00:12:54 | 'Cause I have all these tumors on my thyroid.
|
| 00:12:56 | I'm being tested and
everything.
|
| 00:12:58 | .. it seems like
forever.
|
| 00:13:02 | I'm just working.
|
| 00:13:03 | I'm not trying to think about it.
|
| 00:13:04 | I mean, I'm gonna get the results when i
get them.
|
| 00:13:06 | They're not just not calling me on purpose.
|
| 00:13:08 | Like, there's a reason they're not calling
me.
|
| 00:13:10 | ..? - no.
|
| 00:13:11 | - Say I'm the mother of-- - no, I'm 22 years
old.
|
| 00:13:13 | I can call for my own results.
|
| 00:13:14 | It's my thyroid. it's my body.
|
| 00:13:17 | .. - yeah, but
it's in me.
|
| 00:13:19 | - you don't think
..what?
|
| 00:13:21 | - Long as you're healthy, nothing else matters.
|
| 00:13:24 | - I'm standing here.
|
| 00:13:25 | My heart's beating, that's all that matters.
|
| 00:13:28 | - Thank god.
|
| 00:13:30 | Waiting for the results definitely is earth-shattering.
|
| 00:13:34 | And it just is very, very frightening,
because with--with a diagnosis such as cancer,
everybody's life--the whole family's gonna
change.
|
| 00:13:41 | It becomes survival.
|
| 00:13:42 | So yeah, definitely waiting for the results
is horrible.
|
| 00:13:47 | - right now is your night time,
and it's my daytime.
|
| 00:13:51 | - I know. - right?
|
| 00:13:52 | It's weird, huh? - super weird.
|
| 00:13:54 | - Night, honey. - okay.
|
| 00:13:56 | - Okay.
|
| 00:14:02 | - It's a pretty nice estate, I'd have to
say.
|
| 00:14:06 | - Yep.
|
| 00:14:08 | Well, it's beautiful.
|
| 00:14:10 | - I feel not only so blessed
to be in this amazing relationship
with gretchen,but equally as blessed
to have this developing relationship
with her father, scott.
|
| 00:14:21 | ..
|
| 00:14:24 | A gentleman is always
supposed to make his intentions known?
|
| 00:14:29 | And you know how I feel about gretchen.
|
| 00:14:31 | - Yeah.
|
| 00:14:31 | - And they say you're supposed to go
and ask for the father's permission.
|
| 00:14:35 | - You're gonna have to ask for both.
|
| 00:14:37 | - So I suppose maybe I should go spend some
time with mom.
|
| 00:14:41 | - Yeah, I think so.
|
| 00:14:42 | Do you have some kind of a metallic suit
that you can wear when you go?
|
| 00:14:47 | - Bulletproof? - yeah.
|
| 00:14:48 | - Mesh. - bulletproof, yeah.
|
| 00:14:49 | Kind of one of those 17th-century suits of
armor.
|
| 00:14:52 | - They'll think we're such good housewives,
making the men breakfast.
|
| 00:15:00 | Was it just me, or did you hear slade say
something to dad about he wanted to talk
to him?
|
| 00:15:06 | Last night. - I didn't hear that.
|
| 00:15:08 | - My dad looks in my eyes
and he sees me light up with joy
about the way that I have fallen for slade.
|
| 00:15:14 | My mom, on the other hand, doesn't wanna
invest
the time and energy into somebody
until she feels like it's truly going to
take off.
|
| 00:15:22 | Yeah, I think dad likes slade.
|
| 00:15:24 | Now I just gotta get you to like him.
|
| 00:15:26 | .. I like slade.
|
| 00:15:27 | What--what's with you thinking I don't like
slade?
|
| 00:15:31 | - It's--it's taken you a little bit
to warm up to him, though.
|
| 00:15:35 | - It takes me a little bit to warm up to
any guys
or any girls with my kids.
|
| 00:15:40 | - Oh. - most moms are that way.
|
| 00:15:42 | - You're just really protective?
|
| 00:15:44 | - What do you think?
|
| 00:15:45 | - I told gretchen, I go,
"i wouldn't know what to do with your mother
"
[laughing]
- That's all right, don't feel bad.
|
| 00:15:54 | I go--i think the same thing about me.
|
| 00:15:57 | - [chuckles]
Deciding what--the next level for gretchen
and i
is really a tough thing.
|
| 00:16:01 | I believe that gretchen and I know
that we'd like to be together, we'd like
to be married,
we'd like to have kids.
|
| 00:16:06 | Sometimes we question if that's happening
too quickly.
|
| 00:16:09 | But I can't see me being with anyone else
for the rest of my life.
|
| 00:16:13 | So I have some things I'd like to talk to
brenda about.
|
| 00:16:16 | And I have an important question I need to
ask gretchen.
|
| 00:16:23 | Oh, I'm in the low gear!
|
| 00:16:26 | WHAT? - [laughing]
- I thought it'd be a great idea
if vicki and I just took a walk
and maybe just discussed all of the things
that were going on between us.
|
| 00:16:45 | How pretty it is up here.
|
| 00:16:48 | - So pretty.
|
| 00:16:49 | Look how manicured that is.
|
| 00:16:50 | - I know. wow.
|
| 00:16:51 | - That's the house that kobe bryant was gonna
buy.
|
| 00:16:54 | That one there.
|
| 00:16:55 | - I think it that hurt her feelings to hear
me chime in
on the little bitch fest in san francisco.
|
| 00:17:00 | But vicki's no angel.
|
| 00:17:01 | She's really, really brutal with her words
sometimes.
|
| 00:17:09 | So, um, what was your take on san francisco?
|
| 00:17:14 | - I felt ganged up on.
|
| 00:17:16 | ...hammered and--
for who I am, and what I do, and all that.
|
| 00:17:23 | I felt defensive.
|
| 00:17:24 | - But I don't even know how it started.
|
| 00:17:26 | We had such a good, like, couple days.
|
| 00:17:28 | - oh, we were talk
lynne's house, that's what it was, right?
|
| 00:17:32 | Lynne's party, and then she said
that's what she was upset about.
|
| 00:17:35 | that's high school
stuff.
|
| 00:17:37 | She was bugging me, I was bugging her, get
over it.
|
| 00:17:40 | Next--next day. get over it.
|
| 00:17:41 | - If she was offended by what was said at
that dinner--
- well, I heard after we left
it was a down-on-vicki hate-fest,
which is weird.
|
| 00:17:50 | I would think that you would stick up for
us
- I feel like I'm totally
caught in the middle and everything,
and I'm trying so hard
to take a neutral stance in everything--
I mean, especially when it comes to my husband.
|
| 00:17:59 | But when it comes to the other girls,
I'm not gonna sit there and just let them,
you know, bash on you.
|
| 00:18:05 | She's a ealous person.
|
| 00:18:07 | I see that she's lacking something in her
life
because she's got this huge insecurity issue.
|
| 00:18:13 | - Right.
|
| 00:18:14 | - I would defend you. - I know.
|
| 00:18:15 | But then I kinda think, like, right now,
like,
I don't know what to say 'cause of all the
things
..
|
| 00:18:20 | - I haven't spoken to simon since that night.
|
| 00:18:23 | And that night he was, I thought, out of
line.
|
| 00:18:26 | Totally rude. not called for.
|
| 00:18:27 | I was having--standing in line for a drink,
and then all of a sudden, out of nowhere,
"
- you have no idea about my marriage.
|
| 00:18:33 | - Let's not fight. I don't wanna fight.
|
| 00:18:34 | - For you to tell me that I'm telling her
..
|
| 00:18:36 | You don't even know where you're coming from.
|
| 00:18:37 | - Totally took me by surprise.
|
| 00:18:40 | - Vicki and I used to be close.
|
| 00:18:41 | we did family trips
together.
|
| 00:18:44 | And then when the fighting started with simon,
I just kind of saw a whole nother vicki
that's, um, maybe not so nice.
|
| 00:18:50 | In simon's defense,
the reason why he got mad is because he's
like,
who is she to tell me how to live my life?
|
| 00:18:57 | And--and rightfully so.
|
| 00:19:03 | - I was defending you.
|
| 00:19:04 | I support your marriage. I support your family.
|
| 00:19:06 | If it works for you, tamra, that's all that
matters.
|
| 00:19:09 | That's all that matters.
|
| 00:19:10 | It's none of my frickin' business.
|
| 00:19:12 | - If--but you're not making sense.
|
| 00:19:13 | But if you're saying it's none of your business,
..?
|
| 00:19:15 | - Because I didn't bring it up.
|
| 00:19:17 | I was not going to say anything at lynne's.
|
| 00:19:19 | I was going to push it aside,
but he didn't wanna let it go.
|
| 00:19:22 | - I mean, you want me to back you up in this,
and I can't.
|
| 00:19:27 | It's like, it's my husband, I can't.
|
| 00:19:28 | And you wouldn't do that either.
|
| 00:19:29 | - If donn was wrong, I would, though.
|
| 00:19:32 | ..
|
| 00:19:35 | I'm not gonna force a relationship
that may or may not be there anymore.
|
| 00:19:38 | Either it is worth fixing or it's not.
|
| 00:19:41 | And you guys have to evaluate that.
|
| 00:19:43 | That's all I'm gonna say.
|
| 00:19:44 | AND YOU GUYS CAN EVALUATE, AND [bleep] TWIST
It,
however you guys wanna do it.
|
| 00:19:47 | no one's twisting
it.
|
| 00:19:49 | I'm, like, sitting here going,
okay, something-- something needs to be done.
|
| 00:19:52 | You know, if we wanna continue being friends
you guys need--
this is between you and him.
|
| 00:19:56 | - This stuff is just wasted, toxic, negative
stuff.
|
| 00:20:00 | If simon doesn't like me, if simon doesn't
respect me,
I'm not gonna keep forcing myself on him.
|
| 00:20:04 | I don't need this. I just don't.
|
| 00:20:06 | ..
|
| 00:20:08 | I can't even believe it, really.
|
| 00:20:12 | It's very strange.
|
| 00:20:14 | ..
|
| 00:20:17 | - Since I've experienced a divorce,
I'm scared to get married again.
|
| 00:21:10 | things
that might surprise you.
|
| 00:21:11 | Like discovering thatCanada Dry Ginger Ale
is made from real ginger.
|
| 00:21:16 | ♪♪♪♪♪♪
|
| 00:21:18 | It's a nice surprise.
|
| 00:21:19 | Canada Dry Ginger Ale.
|
| 00:21:21 | Real ginger, real taste.
|
| 00:21:39 | What is it about slow baking
that makes cinnamon so enticing?
|
| 00:21:47 | Why are soft-baked oatmeal raisin cookies
so comforting?
|
| 00:21:52 | Does luscious dark chocolate
feed you or your soul?
|
| 00:21:58 | And why do cookies taste so good
when nestled in fluted cups?
|
| 00:22:04 | Pepperidge farm. good is in the details.
|
| 00:23:54 | - My husband and I get one night a week
that we dedicate to date night.
|
| 00:23:57 | It's two to three hours where it's he and
i,
and that's our night.
|
| 00:24:01 | - Cheers. - cheers, honey.
|
| 00:24:03 | Being able to have a little dinner
without me cooking, woo-woo.
|
| 00:24:05 | Would you like me to butter you a piece of
bread?
|
| 00:24:08 | - Oh, you butter my bread, baby.
|
| 00:24:09 | - Just wanna butter your bread, baby.
|
| 00:24:10 | [laughing] - SO YOU ARE READY TO ORDER?
|
| 00:24:11 | - I don't know if I want the lobster or the
halibut.
|
| 00:24:14 | - I'm gonna have the surf and turf.
|
| 00:24:15 | - So I'll do the halibut, please.
|
| 00:24:17 | 'Cause you're getting surf and turf,
so I can have a bite of your lobster, right?
|
| 00:24:20 | - Okay, in that case, I'll have the crab
and filet.
|
| 00:24:22 | - Sure.
|
| 00:24:23 | - Now I have to change my order!
|
| 00:24:24 | - Honey, do you know what surf and turf means?
|
| 00:24:26 | - It means lobster and steak, right?
|
| 00:24:28 | - Absolutely not, but I will let fernando
explain to you what it means. go ahead, fernando.
|
| 00:24:33 | - I get it, I know the term. I'm not an idiot.
|
| 00:24:36 | - [nervous chuckle] - CAN YOU JUST ADMIT
That you didn't know what surf and turf means?
|
| 00:24:40 | - It doesn't take a rocket scientist.
|
| 00:24:42 | - Who won the argument there, her or i?
|
| 00:24:44 | - [nervous chuckle] YOU GUYS...
|
| 00:24:46 | - That's our date night.
|
| 00:24:47 | Honey, stop it. - okay, you win.
|
| 00:25:34 | on.
|
| 00:25:34 | Get your look on track.
|
| 00:25:36 | Come on, covergirl.
|
| 00:25:37 | Take beautiful back.
|
| 00:25:38 | You can start right here.
|
| 00:25:41 | Just click to match
your department store shades for less.
|
| 00:25:44 | Easy, breezy, beautiful.
|
| 00:25:47 | Covergirl.
|
| 00:27:37 | [doorbell ringing]
- Ugh, goodness.
|
| 00:27:44 | - Hi, guys. - hey.
|
| 00:27:45 | - How are you? - good.
|
| 00:27:46 | How are you? - good to see you.
|
| 00:27:48 | - We made it. - what's going on, man?
|
| 00:27:50 | - Good to see you.
|
| 00:27:50 | - Jim and I invited the pastor and his wife
to our house for breakfast
because I feel guilty for the way I spoke
to vicki
in san francisco, and I think that a pastor
is just someone you can look to for guidance
and support.
|
| 00:28:01 | - So honey, would you please tell us
what the menu consists of here?
|
| 00:28:05 | - Just a little yogurt with granola.
|
| 00:28:06 | We have granola with raisins in the middle,
and then not raisins on the side, and then
fresh fruit,
and then some pumpkin bread. - looks great.
|
| 00:28:13 | - Shall we pray? - yeah.
|
| 00:28:15 | - Father, thank you for this time together.
|
| 00:28:18 | We pray that you bless-- bless this food
to our bodies,
bless the hands that prepared it, in jesus'
name, amen.
|
| 00:28:23 | - In jesus' name, amen. - amen.
|
| 00:28:25 | - I'm ready for some coffee.
|
| 00:28:27 | - Are you?- yeah, me too.
|
| 00:28:29 | Thank you.- you have to open the top up.
|
| 00:28:33 | You have to turn it. you want me to do it?
|
| 00:28:35 | - Yeah, would you?
|
| 00:28:36 | Show how much I pour the coffee.
|
| 00:28:39 | - [polite chuckle]
- So what is it like being the pastor's wife?
|
| 00:28:44 | Like, what is it like to have to always
feel like you cannot mess up?
|
| 00:28:49 | - She is definitely not the typical pastor's
wife.
|
| 00:28:52 | - I'm more in the background
and doing, you know, things behind the scenes.
|
| 00:28:55 | ..i just never have, from the very beginning,
let people put a lot of pressure on me to--
to be a certain way.
|
| 00:29:02 | - What we've found--people think that if
you put a label
of "i'm a christian", you are to live this
standard
that is unattainable for anybody.
|
| 00:29:11 | - just people talking
..
|
| 00:29:23 | And how it can be offensive.
|
| 00:29:25 | - "How can she be christian?
|
| 00:29:26 | "Don't you think it's a contradiction
"that she drank a glass of wine at dinner
"
and it just crushed me. crushed me.
|
| 00:29:33 | - How do you handle that?
|
| 00:29:34 | - I don't think you have to look like a nun,
you know?
|
| 00:29:36 | But at the same time, god can use your beauty.
|
| 00:29:39 | God can use who you are to open the hearts
of people.
|
| 00:29:44 | He doesn't require perfection out of us.
|
| 00:29:46 | He requires a heart.
|
| 00:29:48 | ..
|
| 00:29:50 | And if it's looks, then it's a gift.
|
| 00:29:52 | - Yeah.
|
| 00:29:53 | - I feel like our relationship with our pastor
is just something that jim and I need in
our life.
|
| 00:29:59 | - At some point, you've gotta quit talking
about
what somebody said.
|
| 00:30:03 | Turn to your neighbor and say, "get over
"
- get over it. - get over it.
|
| 00:30:07 | - They're anointed by god, so it's the best
person
you can if you need to go to someone.
|
| 00:30:11 | - You've been to san francisco, right?
|
| 00:30:13 | - Yes. - did you just get back?
|
| 00:30:15 | ..not-- - she was there.
|
| 00:30:17 | it was one of the very few times
we've ever traveled without the other.
|
| 00:30:21 | Unfortunately, I got into a little spat there.
|
| 00:30:24 | And, you know, I spoke--
I don't think harsh but I was just probably
not the christian woman I should've been.
|
| 00:30:30 | You said it about my husband.
|
| 00:30:31 | And you said it about everyone else's husbands.
|
| 00:30:32 | - I never said it about her husband or her.
|
| 00:30:34 | "
that was the issue.
|
| 00:30:38 | You know, and then the next day I go in to
service,
and it's about watch your tongue.
|
| 00:30:41 | [exhales] HOW APPROPRIATE! YOU KNOW?
|
| 00:30:43 | - Funny how that happens, isn't it?
|
| 00:30:45 | - God does that with me, though.
|
| 00:30:46 | He's--it's amazing, because it's when
I'm really needing a talking to.
|
| 00:30:50 | ..
|
| 00:30:52 | Did he--did you do that for me?
|
| 00:30:54 | Like, I feel so close to him, you know?
|
| 00:30:58 | - I think it ended well because, ultimately,
vicki's daughter was sick,
and alexis got the opportunity to pray for
her.
|
| 00:31:07 | - Prayer works.
|
| 00:31:07 | - I feel that christians need to find their
own walk with god.
|
| 00:31:10 | I am on my own journey with god,
and I'll work out my own salvation.
|
| 00:31:14 | And I pray to him every day.
|
| 00:31:16 | And god is the almighty loving god,
and he will not judge me for it.
|
| 00:31:28 | - Babe, who's cooking the steaks?
|
| 00:31:29 | Who's cooking the steaks, mom?
|
| 00:31:30 | - I don't know who's cooking the steaks.
|
| 00:31:32 | Your mother frightens me.
|
| 00:31:33 | - She frightens me too.
|
| 00:31:35 | Come on, you'll get used to it.
|
| 00:31:36 | - She's gonna watch what you do, babe.
|
| 00:31:38 | She's gonna really make sure that you're
doing good.
|
| 00:31:41 | Babe, don't mess it up. I'm serious.
|
| 00:31:43 | If you mess it up, it's over between you
and i.
|
| 00:31:46 | [laughing]
- Sit down. have a seat.
|
| 00:31:50 | I'll scootch ya.
|
| 00:31:52 | There you go.
|
| 00:31:52 | don't fall in the
drain.
|
| 00:31:54 | - Brenda, you just come on over here, snookie.
|
| 00:31:56 | - Do you want to scoot closer together?
|
| 00:31:59 | - NO, I'M GOOD. - [laughing]
- I know slade really wants to win my mom
over,
but she's a tough cookie,
and I think it's gonna take a while for her
to realize
that he's a really important part of my life.
|
| 00:32:08 | - [chuckles] - I HAVE A QUESTION.
|
| 00:32:10 | Okay, so two questions, actually.
|
| 00:32:11 | like, are you best
friends?
|
| 00:32:14 | - LET'S TAKE A VOTE. [laughing]
- [laughing] NO, FOR REAL!
|
| 00:32:20 | - Of course we are!
|
| 00:32:21 | - Okay, wait--okay, so then here's my other
question.
|
| 00:32:24 | What would you say the secret to marriage
is?
|
| 00:32:26 | - I don't think there's a secret, sweetheart.
|
| 00:32:29 | - Like, how do you put up with the same person
for that many years?
|
| 00:32:32 | It's hard, right? - yeah.
|
| 00:32:34 | - Is there sometimes where you just really,
like, go, "why the hell am I in this,
I just wanna get out of it"? - no.
|
| 00:32:39 | "
"
but no.
|
| 00:32:45 | - Some people get complacent in a marriage.
|
| 00:32:48 | I honestly believe everybody should be for
lease.
|
| 00:32:55 | - It's like a car for lease, right?
|
| 00:32:56 | There might be something new that comes along,
a new version, a new car, a new whatever,
a new look.
|
| 00:33:00 | So you wanna make sure that the person that
you're with--
like, you have a lease, and you go--
- gretchen. - hey, shh, let me finish.
|
| 00:33:07 | It's a good idea.
|
| 00:33:07 | - that's a very bad
idea.
|
| 00:33:11 | - A very bad idea. - I think she's joking.
|
| 00:33:13 | Gretchen is ready for forever after.
|
| 00:33:15 | - If I had somebody for lease,
and I knew that, hey, they're either gonna
keep me
or turn me in for a newer version or a better
version,
I'm gonna try and stay tuned up.
|
| 00:33:24 | I'm gonna try and be as good as I can.
|
| 00:33:25 | I'm gonna try and stay on my best behavior.
|
| 00:33:27 | That makes sense, doesn't it? kinda?
|
| 00:33:30 | - No.
|
| 00:33:31 | - [laughing] - SORRY.
|
| 00:33:32 | - I wanna marry slade when it's right.
|
| 00:33:35 | And I don't actually know when I'm gonna
be ready for that.
|
| 00:33:37 | I guess I just--i feel like since I've experienced
going through a marriage and a divorce,
I'm scared to get married again.
|
| 00:33:47 | - I'm tired of tiptoeing around getting married.
|
| 00:33:52 | I was very upset.
|
| 00:33:54 | - Everything's happened pretty fast.
|
| 00:34:00 | It's commitment to yourself first--
"
- I don't wanna wake up one day
and regret anything.
|
| 00:34:24 | - This is just ridiculous.
|
| 00:34:25 | This whole thing. I'm stressed out.
|
| 00:34:27 | - After we got the notice,
the girls and I went over to my mom's
and frank went off to the hotel.
|
| 00:34:35 | - THIS IS SO [bleep] UP.
|
| 00:34:36 | - Frank called and told us he wanted us
to come over and talk to him
and discuss what's going on with our situation.
|
| 00:34:43 | Raquel wasn't available, and alexa was a
little out of sorts,
which is understandable.
|
| 00:34:50 | I think this is it.
|
| 00:34:51 | We haven't provided a stable environment
for the girls.
|
| 00:34:56 | - I'M SO [bleep] OVER THIS, MOM.
|
| 00:34:59 | I don't wanna do this.
|
| 00:35:03 | [knocking]
- Hey, girls. - hi.
|
| 00:35:10 | - Hi, hon.
|
| 00:35:11 | - Hi. - hi, lex. hello, sweetie.
|
| 00:35:14 | Hi, lex. - hey.
|
| 00:35:15 | - You look pretty.
|
| 00:35:16 | - Thank you.
|
| 00:35:18 | - You look pretty too. - thanks.
|
| 00:35:20 | - So what's going on?
|
| 00:35:24 | - I don't know.
|
| 00:35:25 | - We're not having a good day right now.
|
| 00:35:27 | - No?
|
| 00:35:28 | - I'm justover this whole thing.
|
| 00:35:31 | It's just really stressful.
|
| 00:35:33 | I just feel like everyone'sjust being shady
lately
and not telling me what's going on.
|
| 00:35:38 | I, like-- I can't believe you.
|
| 00:35:40 | that you would do that
to me.
|
| 00:35:43 | - I've put you guys in jeopardy,
and I'm eternally sorry for that.
|
| 00:35:48 | - You say things sometimes to us,
and you make it seem, like, so wonderful.
|
| 00:35:53 | And if you can't do something, tell me.
|
| 00:35:55 | Like, I'd rather just hear the bad news
..
|
| 00:35:59 | - I'd rather hear
the truth.
|
| 00:36:01 | - I think we've all had enough bad news for
the time being.
|
| 00:36:04 | - I don't know what in your past is causing
you to, like,
constantly lie to me.
|
| 00:36:09 | - I swear I am so sorry.
|
| 00:36:11 | Lynne and I have moved a lot over the years.
|
| 00:36:14 | ..that's my fault.
|
| 00:36:16 | I'm not doing anything malicious.
|
| 00:36:18 | You know, when I had money, I should've been
saving it.
|
| 00:36:20 | Instead, I spent it completely irresponsibly.
|
| 00:36:25 | ..
|
| 00:36:29 | Just somewhere to come home to.
|
| 00:36:31 | - I just want a home,
I want a house to live in for our kids.
|
| 00:36:35 | I don't ask for a lot.
|
| 00:36:36 | I was really upset with frank
because he does this to me a lot in our marriage.
|
| 00:36:41 | There has been a pattern of living beyond
our means.
|
| 00:36:46 | That's our m.o.
|
| 00:36:47 | This was almost like a near-death experience
for me.
|
| 00:36:51 | ..
|
| 00:36:55 | What I just went through.
|
| 00:36:56 | - Lynne, I'm really sorry.
|
| 00:36:57 | - I'm not believing it anymore
because, based on results, it's just not
happening.
|
| 00:37:01 | I don't wanna think about it anymore,
'cause I'm just gonna get depressed.
|
| 00:37:04 | - Look, the bottom line is I'm gonna communicate
with you
about everything.
|
| 00:37:09 | Good, bad, or indifferent.
|
| 00:37:10 | And you know, I want us to be a team.
|
| 00:37:12 | - I can't promise you forever.
|
| 00:37:14 | I can promise you a day at a time.
|
| 00:37:16 | - Yeah.
|
| 00:37:17 | .. forever like I used
to.
|
| 00:37:21 | - It's not too late.
|
| 00:37:23 | It's not.
|
| 00:37:28 | ..
|
| 00:37:30 | - I feel a real family vacation coming on.
|
| 00:37:33 | How you feel about that?
|
| 00:40:40 | - This is just not right.
|
| 00:40:41 | This whole thing is just really messed up.
|
| 00:40:43 | - You know what, everything's gonna be back
to normal--
- it's like you guys think that you guys
are the only ones stressed out, but really--
- no, I know.
|
| 00:40:51 | I think that, you know, this is a very emotional
time
for alexa, and she definitely has every reason
in the world
to be pissed off right now.
|
| 00:40:59 | And I'm not gonna duck any punches.
|
| 00:41:01 | I'm not a perfect
human being.
|
| 00:41:03 | I make mistakes. I screw up all the time.
|
| 00:41:08 | But you know what? I love you.
|
| 00:41:10 | I swear to god on my life, I love you.
|
| 00:41:14 | I apologize if I let you guys down.
|
| 00:41:17 | I know I did.
|
| 00:41:18 | And I'll try in the future
not to let that happen anymore.
|
| 00:41:25 | I feel a real family vacation coming on.
|
| 00:41:29 | I'm serious.
|
| 00:41:30 | How do you feel about that?
|
| 00:41:32 | - How do I feel about that? - yeah.
|
| 00:41:34 | - I FEEL LIKE IT'S BULL[bleep].
|
| 00:41:41 | It's all talk with my dad.
|
| 00:41:41 | You know, I don't know what to believe.
|
| 00:41:43 | He definitely does have promises that he
can't keep at all.
|
| 00:41:50 | I just feel like my whole life's just, like,
un-normal.
|
| 00:41:53 | Like, I just want to be a normal teenager.
|
| 00:41:57 | I never really know what home is.
|
| 00:41:59 | Like, I've never really had a home.
|
| 00:42:01 | Like, we move, like, every six months.
|
| 00:42:04 | - Lots of people move.
|
| 00:42:06 | - Not like us.
|
| 00:42:07 | We've lived everywhere in orange county so
far.
|
| 00:42:10 | - This is gonna be our year.
|
| 00:42:13 | you said that
four years ago.
|
| 00:42:17 | And nothing's happened, dad.
|
| 00:42:18 | - That's not true.
|
| 00:42:19 | - I just don't know how to believe you.
|
| 00:42:21 | I'm almost 18, I'm almost moving out,
and you're still saying, like,
stuff's gonna
"
what if it's too late?
|
| 00:42:28 | - I know she's very upset and distraught
.. moving so much.
|
| 00:42:33 | And I do think it's caused her to be very
insecure,
and it's caused me to be insecure.
|
| 00:42:38 | - I just can't promise you a rose petal path.
|
| 00:42:41 | I can't.
|
| 00:42:41 | - I feel like I can't trust you.
|
| 00:42:44 | I just don't know what to do.
|
| 00:42:46 | I'm just really sick of this.
|
| 00:42:48 | I'm really sick of it.
|
| 00:42:50 | My parents are focusing so much on me
and, like, what I do wrong,
instead of, like, the realness of the situation.
|
| 00:42:56 | How can they expect me to do what they want
me to do
when they don't show me what's wrong and
what's right?
|
| 00:43:03 | - You know what, every single family has
issues.
|
| 00:43:09 | - This whole thing is just stressing me out
so badly.
|
| 00:43:13 | I JUST LIKE-- [crying]
- Come on, everything's gonna be fine.
|
| 00:43:18 | You know, I mean, I adore you.
|
| 00:43:19 | You're my special angel, you and your sister.
|
| 00:43:23 | - I just can't trust anyone.
|
| 00:43:24 | - Next week this time we'll be moved in.
|
| 00:43:26 | - Come on, everything's gonna be fine.
|
| 00:43:27 | - Everything's gonna be wonderful.
|
| 00:43:29 | - Come on.
|
| 00:43:30 | - No, I just-- I just--
- there's two parents that love you so much.
|
| 00:43:34 | - Come on. - no.
|
| 00:43:36 | Just stop, please.
|
| 00:43:39 | - By far, this is the most devastating thing
that has happened to us.
|
| 00:43:42 | - I just want to get out of here.
|
| 00:43:48 | - Wait a minute, alexa.
|
| 00:43:50 | And I don't ever want to have
to be in this situation ever again.
|
| 00:43:56 | ..
|
| 00:43:59 | - The women's empowerment expo
is a terrific opportunity to launch our makeup
line.
|
| 00:44:03 | So where the hell is everybody?
|
| 00:44:06 | - But I do see a good side to her.
|
| 00:44:08 | - Hitler had a good side.
|
| 00:44:10 | - I would never quit. meet me halfway.
|
| 00:44:13 | - I've been calling the doctor all day.
|
| 00:44:15 | I haven't heard anything.
|
| 00:44:16 | We're waiting for the results for her biopsy.
|
| 00:44:24 | - I was a little bit scared.
|
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go to bravotv.com.
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|
| 00:44:33 | - Here are the compacts,
which I was really, really impressed by.
|
| 00:44:36 | - Ron ann and I are, like,
"
- if you're talking about getting offended
..
|
| 00:44:42 | - Bring it on.
|
| 00:44:43 | - The four of us say that you say things
that are offensive sometimes.
|
| 00:44:45 | - She's my friend. you just met her.
|
| 00:44:46 | Don't you dare put her against me!
|
| 00:44:49 | - I'm here to serve an eviction notice.
|
| 00:44:52 | You've been served.
|
| 00:44:52 | - I'm not a perfect dad. I make mistakes.
|
| 00:44:55 | I screw up all the time.
|
| 00:44:56 | - This whole thing is just stressing me out
so badly.
|
| 00:44:58 | - I had a thyroid ultrasound, and my whole
neck
is covered in nodules.
|
| 00:45:03 | I have some on my lymph nodes too.
|
| 00:45:05 | - There's gonna be no cancer, I'm positive.
|
| 00:45:11 | - I'm smart, I'm sexy,i'm confident.
|
| 00:45:13 | Of course people are gonnatalk about me.
|
| 00:45:17 | - I love my family,i love my work.
|
| 00:45:19 | I love my life.
|
| 00:45:20 | - Whoo-hoo!
|
| 00:45:23 | - Am I high-maintenance?of course I am.
|
| 00:45:26 | Look at me.
|
| 00:45:29 | - It's not about how much money you have.
|
| 00:45:33 | It's about how good you look spending it.
|
| 00:45:35 | - Housewives come younger, but they don't
come hotter.
|
| 00:46:09 | - Well, when I first got back from san francisco,
the women made me feel bad.
|
| 00:46:13 | I didn't think I was that emotional about
it.
|
| 00:46:16 | It didn't used to be this way.
|
| 00:46:18 | we used to giggle and
laugh.
|
| 00:46:21 | - Right, right.
|
| 00:46:22 | - The fun's gone.
|
| 00:46:23 | I thought I was a little bit stronger
and can kind of take the highs and the lows,
but really, I don't want to be around it.
|
| 00:46:28 | I don't want to be around people
that are fair-weathered friends.
|
| 00:46:32 | Like, I just need some people that understand
me and love me
and go, "you know what, it's not all worth
"
I got margaritas.
|
| 00:46:39 | - What a cute outfit. - thank you.
|
| 00:46:41 | It's my little sunday afternoon romper.
|
| 00:46:43 | - I love sunday afternoon rompers.
|
| 00:46:44 | - How are you doing? - I'm good.
|
| 00:46:46 | - Nice to see you.
|
| 00:46:47 | Without the crap that I've been through this
year,
I can definitely look back and appreciate
the friendship I have with jeana.
|
| 00:46:52 | She's been my sidekick for the last four
years,
and our friendship has been hurt.
|
| 00:46:55 | But at least I always knew where I stood
with jeana.
|
| 00:46:58 | - Briana, what's she up to?
|
| 00:47:00 | She dating anybody special?
|
| 00:47:01 | - No, she's not.
|
| 00:47:02 | We have a little bit of a health scare right
now.
|
| 00:47:04 | She has tumors in her neck, in her thyroid.
|
| 00:47:09 | So we just had biopsies done.
|
| 00:47:10 | We'll know more when we get the results.
|
| 00:47:12 | So anyway, just put her in your prayers.
|
| 00:47:14 | We just gotta get through that.
|
| 00:47:16 | Waiting for the results definitely is earth-shattering,
because you never know when that phone's
gonna ring.
|
| 00:47:21 | It's just terrible. - I know.
|
| 00:47:23 | - I don't know, jeana, it's just frickin'
weird.
|
| 00:47:26 | The waiting's the hardest, but I think
everything's gonna be fine-- it's gotta be.
|
| 00:47:30 | - Okay, tell me more about san francisco.
|
| 00:47:32 | What was going on for real?
|
| 00:47:33 | - Gretchen's actually been very cool.
|
| 00:47:34 | Alexis--alexis has not been cool.
|
| 00:47:36 | That's the bottom line. mm-hmm. - really?
|
| 00:47:38 | "
that was the problem,
vicki.
|
| 00:47:43 | ..keep... pushing at me.
|
| 00:47:46 | - Oh, it seems silly. - you know?
|
| 00:47:47 | I was tired of it--i already had a little
bit of it
at lynne's the week before.
|
| 00:47:51 | She was offended with three things
that I did that night.
|
| 00:47:53 | And I'm, like, who counts?
|
| 00:47:54 | - WHO COUNTS? [laughs]
- You know?
|
| 00:47:58 | I've got way too many things to worry about
than how many times I'm offended by somebody.
|
| 00:48:01 | And she wanted to bring it on.
|
| 00:48:02 | "
and I thought, "you know what, I don't want
to bring it on.
|
| 00:48:05 | "
so I backed up, and I'm like, "i'm not gonna
"
- well, what is tamra barney doing
when this girl's attacking you?
|
| 00:48:14 | She's not listening?
|
| 00:48:15 | She's at another spot at the table?
|
| 00:48:16 | .. somewhat siding with
her.
|
| 00:48:20 | - Oh.
|
| 00:48:20 | - You know, you and I have had our differences,
but at the end of the day, we always had
each other's back.
|
| 00:48:24 | - Of course we did. - I really think we did.
|
| 00:48:26 | And I still feel that way about you.
|
| 00:48:28 | - Vicki unloaded on me about the drama
that she was having with alexis,
and how she felt tamra didn't have her back
either.
|
| 00:48:34 | And I kind of thought that vicki deserved
it a little bit.
|
| 00:48:41 | She didn't have my back,
and she wasn't being a very supportive friend
to me.
|
| 00:48:46 | So sometimes you get what you give.
|
| 00:48:48 | Hey, you don't have to be best friends with
everyone.
|
| 00:48:50 | - I don't want to be best friends with them.
|
| 00:48:52 | I really don't. - friends take too much time.
|
| 00:48:53 | - I just don't want them calling me out on
stuff
and making me feel, like, defensive
on who--who I am.
|
| 00:48:58 | I know that I was kind of tough on jeana,
and our friendship has been hurt.
|
| 00:49:02 | But it's been nothing like what I had experienced
with these bitches.
|
| 00:49:16 | - oh, it's getting
close.
|
| 00:49:18 | - I know. - it's getting very close.
|
| 00:49:20 | No, I'm not nervous yet.
|
| 00:49:23 | My mom flew in from colorado,
niccole's
office
to discuss an eyebrow lift.
|
| 00:49:29 | I love it when she comes to town.
|
| 00:49:30 | I always feel just like a breath of fresh
air
when she comes in to visit.
|
| 00:49:35 | Hello.
|
| 00:49:37 | - Hi. good morning. - hi.
|
| 00:49:38 | - Welcome to cosmeticare. how are you today?
|
| 00:49:40 | - Good. how are you doing? - good.
|
| 00:49:41 | You're here for your consult with dr. niccole?
|
| 00:49:44 | - Correct. - okay.
|
| 00:49:44 | Let me just show you this way. - okay.
|
| 00:49:47 | - I know this office all too well.
|
| 00:49:58 | After I had the twins,
I wanted to have my breasts redone.
|
| 00:50:01 | And so I guess you could say,
after the twins, I needed new twins.
|
| 00:50:06 | - so good to see
you again.
|
| 00:50:08 | - I saw you in march, when you came in with
your daughter.
|
| 00:50:10 | - Hi. - hello, alexis.
|
| 00:50:11 | How are you? - good. good to see you.
|
| 00:50:13 | - How's your day? - it's good.
|
| 00:50:15 | I'm glad not to be on this chair today.
|
| 00:50:18 | [chuckles]
- How was your flight? - very good, thanks.
|
| 00:50:19 | - Everything good?- yeah.
|
| 00:50:21 | - Good, good.
|
| 00:50:21 | ..facial
rejuvenation.
|
| 00:50:25 | You want to look a little more refreshed.
|
| 00:50:27 | Is that correct, or-- - I want these gone.
|
| 00:50:30 | - Okay, frown really hard.
|
| 00:50:31 | - It's worry lines, I guess, or something.
|
| 00:50:33 | When I'm intense about something.
|
| 00:50:35 | - Make a frown, mom. - make a real frown.
|
| 00:50:37 | Okay, yeah. we can just remove skin.
|
| 00:50:40 | And then we close the wound.
|
| 00:50:43 | But I would probably recommend
not only a brow lift, but also upper eyelid
surgery.
|
| 00:50:50 | See these little lines right here?
|
| 00:50:51 | We'll get rid of those.
|
| 00:50:52 | We'll thin this muscle out too.
|
| 00:50:54 | A little bit of tightening here.
|
| 00:50:55 | I'll elevate this side a little more.
|
| 00:50:57 | Take a little fat and reposition the fat.
|
| 00:50:59 | You have a little bit of a line forming here.
|
| 00:51:03 | We can use a little jeuvederm there.
|
| 00:51:06 | And we could do laser to the lower eyelids
area.
|
| 00:51:09 | Sound good? - sounds good.
|
| 00:51:10 | - [chuckles] - LET'S GO GET SIGNED UP.
|
| 00:51:13 | - Okay.
|
| 00:51:13 | - Alexis, any other suggestions you'd like?
|
| 00:51:16 | ..
|
| 00:51:16 | At some point I'd also like to do permanent
eyeliner
and laser resurfacing.
|
| 00:51:22 | - She told dr. niccole, "this is my budget.
|
| 00:51:24 | Whatever you can do up to this, take care
"
I didn't realize that she wasgetting a lot
more done
than I thought.
|
| 00:51:31 | If she comes back over the winter,
could we do the laser peel and the tattooing
at the same time?
|
| 00:51:34 | Six more months, mom, and you can come back
for that.
|
| 00:51:38 | ..
|
| 00:51:39 | - You're just gonna feel so awesome.
|
| 00:51:42 | I mean, you're already, like, perfect.
|
| 00:52:03 | [doorbell rings]
- hi
- oh, my god!
|
| 00:52:10 | - I had a feeling it was gonna be a long
night,
so I brought the bitch wine
and the protein bars to keep us awake.
|
| 00:52:17 | - Who's the bitch today?
|
| 00:52:18 | Is it me? - no.
|
| 00:52:19 | - When I got back from san francisco,
I was very upset and angry at the situation.
|
| 00:52:24 | And the girls and I went to my mom's home,
and frank ended up staying at a hotel.
|
| 00:52:32 | What do you think?
|
| 00:52:33 | - It's nice. - pretty cool.
|
| 00:52:34 | Mom's got a nice pad, huh?
|
| 00:52:36 | ..you got the girls here?
|
| 00:52:38 | - Yeah, the girls, they're at the pool right
now, though.
|
| 00:52:40 | - what do you mean
frank's pool?
|
| 00:52:43 | - Over at the resort.
|
| 00:52:44 | He's staying out at the spa resort.
|
| 00:52:45 | - Wait, he's at a resort, and you're living
with mom?
|
| 00:52:49 | - Really. I know.
|
| 00:52:50 | - Are your kids okay?
|
| 00:52:51 | - No, no. I don't think they're okay.
|
| 00:52:53 | They are really mad and angry,
and they've got, like, a lot of pent-up aggression,
I'm sure.
|
| 00:52:57 | - Yeah.
|
| 00:52:58 | - You know, I want-- I don't know what to
do.
|
| 00:53:00 | - Are you okay with frank?
|
| 00:53:02 | - No, I'm not-- no.
|
| 00:53:03 | - no, I'm mad--
I'm so mad right now. I'm so mad at frank.
|
| 00:53:08 | Nobody's gonna pull me down.
|
| 00:53:10 | I'm not gonna
be the victim.
|
| 00:53:11 | does he
cheat on you?
|
| 00:53:15 | - No, he doesn't cheat on me. he's germophobic.
|
| 00:53:17 | He would never cheat on me.
|
| 00:53:19 | Never.
|
| 00:53:21 | - I don't even know where to go with that
one.
|
| 00:53:23 | - What?
|
| 00:53:24 | ..
|
| 00:53:25 | Okay, so-- so what are you gonna do?
|
| 00:53:28 | I mean, are you guys moving out?
|
| 00:53:29 | are you gonna do your own
thing?
|
| 00:53:31 | What are you gonna do? - what are my options?
|
| 00:53:33 | I have always been able to, like, forgive
and forget
and all that, but I don't know if I want
to.
|
| 00:53:40 | - Mm-hmm, I could see that, yeah.
|
| 00:53:42 | I could totally see that.
|
| 00:53:42 | But I also see that there's, like, this hard
shell right now
that is getting chipped away.
|
| 00:53:49 | And as much as you want to be strong,
[voice cracking] I KIND OF FEEL LIKE
You've got a broken heart.
|
| 00:53:54 | I can definitely relate.
|
| 00:53:55 | We're kind of going through some similar
situations
with our husbands.
|
| 00:53:59 | We might be at different places,
but I see where she's going.
|
| 00:54:04 | - I don't know.
|
| 00:54:05 | I don't want to start crying now, but--
- I feel like you're trying--
I feel like you're-- what I see right now,
as your friend, that you're trying to be
so strong,
and you're trying to hold it together for
everybody.
|
| 00:54:16 | And you're gonna crumble.
|
| 00:54:19 | - We're not gonna be together right now,
as far as I'm concerned.
|
| 00:54:22 | I'm not gonna be with him right now.
|
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| 00:54:32 | [all shrieking]
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| 00:54:56 | Bliss.
|
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|
| 00:55:00 | Crafted for bliss.
|
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| 00:56:45 | [ birds chirping ]
.. - look who's here.
|
| 00:58:25 | - The birthday girl. - birthday girl!
|
| 00:58:27 | [cheers and applause]
- Let's get this party started.
|
| 00:58:30 | - Happy birthday.
|
| 00:58:34 | - It's my 42nd birthday,
so ricky came up with the ideato get a group
together
and go to lunch.
|
| 00:58:41 | - Hi, tammy.i have your sunglasses.
|
| 00:58:43 | - Hi, honey.happy birthday.
|
| 00:58:45 | - Crown and everything. - I know.
|
| 00:58:47 | I'm sorry that alexis couldn't make it
to my birthday party,
but heck, her mom's having a facelift.
|
| 00:58:52 | I totally get it.
|
| 00:58:52 | I mean, come on, what better way to celebrate
than getting together with my hos and my
mos,
and getting day-drunk?
|
| 00:58:57 | But are you her-- are you the mo or the ho?
|
| 00:59:00 | - Moho. - I'm a homo.
|
| 00:59:03 | [laughter]
- Get it right, girl.
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